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How long will it last?
all about labour
How long will my labour last?
This is hard to determine as every woman is different and every labour is different. Also, how long your labour lasts depends on when you start timing it as the start of labour can be a gradual build-up that occurs over a fairly long period of time. Usually, labour is classed as being established when the contractions are regular and getting stronger and do not stop until the baby is born. This, coupled with the cervix opening, are indicators that labour has commenced. During the gradual build-up of contractions, labour is sometimes described as being in the ”latent” phase until it becomes more established. This latent phase may last for a period of around 6-8 hours in first-time mothers.
As a general rule, if this is your first baby -you should expect to labour for around 12-24 hours in total. If you have had a baby before, your labour may be a lot quicker, providing there are no other complications, particularly if you have had a vaginal delivery in the last 2-3 years. In some cases, usually with second or subsequent babies, labours can last for only a few hours, or even minutes, and in these situations the mother may not to make it into hospital. The best advice in all cases is to speak to your midwife or hospital if you think labour has started
I like to know what to expect. What will happen when I first arrive at the hospital?
Hospital routines vary, but generally you will be shown to a room on the labour ward, and one of the midwives on duty will come to see you. As
well as asking you about your labour so far, she will probably ask to check your temperature, pulse, and blood pressure, and listen to the baby’s heartbeat. She will also feel your tummy to assess the baby’s position and how far the head has engaged or
moved down in the pelvis (see p. 148) If -your contractions are regular, an internal examination may sometimes be done to reveal how far your cervix has dilated and therefore what stage your labour is at. This information will give the midwife an insight into the wellbeing of both you and your baby. and will help you both to decide on the next course of action. If your labour is in the very early stages, your midwife may suggest that you return home for a while or spend some time on an antenatal ward If your labour is well established, a delivery room will be found for you
How will the hospital check my progress?
An experienced midwife can tell a lot about your labour just by looking at you and observing your behaviour. For example, a woman who is chatting happily during each contraction is unlikely to be in well-established labour. A woman who is in established labour and starts to be restless and nauseous may be in the ”transition” phase; approaching the second stage of labour (see p.183)
Another way in which your midwife will assess your progress is by feeling your tummy to check the strength of the contractions, and also by feeling the position of the baby’s head in your pelvis
Internal examinations also reveal a lot about how your labour is progressing. By placing two fingers gently into the vagina, the midwife or doctor can feel how far the cervix is thinning out (effacing) and opening (dilating), how the baby’s head is moving downwards, and what position the baby’s head is in.
What is ARM, and is it routine?
ARM stands for”Artificial Rupture of the Membranes”. This means that a doctor or midwife, using a plastic ”crochet hook” with a long handle, control while taking gas and air and therefore you may find that you want to stop taking it while you are pushing if it is distracting you too much and stopping you focusing on the contractions Some women manage their entire labour on gas and air alone, while others find that they need another form of pain relief in the later stages of labour.
How will I use the gas and air and is it likely to make me feel sick?
Gas and air is breathed in through a mouthpiece or mask that is connected to a cylinder or pipes in the wall that lead to larger cylinders elsewhere. You administer it yourself, so are more in control of how much you take and when.
Gas and air can make your lips and mouth feel tingly and dry, and in some cases women report feeling nauseous while taking it. Using a mouthpiece rather than a mask may help to reduce feelings of nausea brought on by the smell of the gas and the sensation of having a mask over your face, and taking sips of water may help As the effect of gas and air is short-lived, you only need to use it during contractions; taking gas and air between contractions will not help with the pain of the next contraction and is likely to increase the sensation of nausea.
I want to have a great birth but you hear such awful stories -how can I stay positive?
For every awful birth story there is an equally positive one — it does tend to be the case that you are less likely to hear about the positive birth stories as these aren’t such good topics of discussion! However your labour and birth proceeds, the birth of your baby will be amazing because you will finally meet the little person who has dominated your life for the past nine months.
It is sensible to remain open minded about labour and birth, because it’s impossible to foresee exactly how things will go on the day However, there is a lot that you and your partner can do to help prepare yourselves for labour and birth so that -you
Gas and air
A form of self-controlled pain relief in labour
A mixture of oxygen and nitrous oxide that is self-administered in labour.
Gas and air, also known as Entonox, is taken through a mask or a mouthpiece during labour. This dulls the pain centres in the brain and produce a sense of euphoria This needs to be timed with your contractions as the effects are short-lasting, with the gas being breathed in just prior to and during a contraction. You will feel normal once you stop using it.
Gas and air tends to be the preferred choice for managing pain in women who want to labour as naturally as possible The reason for this is that gas and air has several advantages, including the fact that you can remain mobile and active while using it; it can he used during a water birth; it doesn’t affect the baby in any way; and it doesn’t make you feel drowsy during labour, which allows you to feel more in control throughout and to remain as focused as possible on your contractions. However, although it is a widely available and a popular choice of pain relief in the UK, it doesn’t tend to be used in the United States
have the best chance of having a positive overall birth experience. For example, you can both learn as much as possible about the process of labour and birth so that you can make informed decisions in labour. You can chat with your midwife, read books, find information on the internet, and attend antenatal classes. Also, knowing how labour progresses helps to demystify the experience and therefore removes some of the fear that accompanies labour and birth. Learning basic relaxation and breathing exercises also helps (see p.173), as being able to relax as much as possible during labour helps you to feel less anxious, which in turn can help the labour to proceed as quickly and smoothly as possible tears a small hole in the amniotic membrane that surrounds the baby and contains the amniotic fluid and the fluid then passes out through the vagina. This procedure is also referred to as ”breaking the waters” and may be uncomfortable. ARM can be used to try to induce, or speed up, labour (see p,191). The idea is that the layer of membrane between the baby’s head and the cervix is removed. This enables the head to press directly on the cervix, which in turn releases the hormones that stimulate contractions and start, or help to speed up, labour.
ARM should not be performed routinely. In a spontaneous labour that is progressing normally, there is no need, and the membranes will usually rupture on their own.
I’m worried about being strapped to a bed and monitored. Is that essential?
If there are no complications or reasons for concern, your baby’s heartbeat will usually be monitored using a hand-held device much like the one used during your antenatal appointments to listen to your
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baby’s heartbeat Once your labour is well under way, your midwife will listen to your baby’s heartbeat for about 30 seconds to one minute every 15 minutes or so, which means that you can move around as much as you like in between.
If you have had complications in pregnancy, or problems develop during your labour, the midwife may recommend that your baby’s heartbeat is monitored continuously using a ‘ CTO”, which stands for ”cardiotocograph” (see p.192). This means that you will have two monitors strapped to your tummy using thick elastic belts. One measures the baby’s heartbeat and the other measures the frequency of the contractions. The monitors are attached to a machine that prints out information in the form of a graph This allows the doctors and midwives to keep a close eye on your baby’s wellbeing and how she is responding to the contractions.
A CTO does make keeping active a little more difficult but by no means impossible. Leads can be moved out of the way and adjusted, and some maternity units have a wireless CTG You can talk to your midwife about how this will be managed.

When can I start pushing?
Ideally you can start pushing as soon as you feel the urge to, assuming that your cervix is fully open. The urge to push is usually stimulated by the baby moving down the birth canal, which happens at some stage once the cervix is fully open. You may experience a sensation of needing to open your bowels and may actually pass some stools or urine, as the baby is pushing on the back passage. This is a very common occurence in labour (see p 188)
If both you and the baby are well, you will be encouraged to follow the natural urge to push. Sometimes, you can feel an urge to push before the cervix is fully open If this is the case, it is important to resist this feeling as much as possible, as pushing at this stage can cause the cervix to swell, which makes it more difficult for it to dilate. Some women find that kneeling on all fours with their head and shoulders lower than their hips is a good position for this stage of labour.
What is “crowning” and should I continue to push during this part of the labour?
This term refers to the part of birth when the widest part of the baby’s head – known as the crown –eases out of the opening of your vagina. Your midwife will encourage you not to push at this stage so that the baby’s head can be born in a slow and controlled way, which can help to prevent serious tears to your vagina and perineum (the muscle and tissue around the outside area of your vagina and anus). Although stopping pushing can be hard, -you could try short panting breaths or slow steady breaths to help you achieve this.
Although many women are worried about the possibility of tearing during the delivery of their baby it can be reassuring to remind yourself that midwives are very experienced and practised at guiding women and helping them to avoid tears whenever possible.
Positions for the second stage of labour
Although by this point in your labour you may be extremely tired and the contractions are lasting longer, it is best to resist any urge to lie down as this will not help the progress of the baby through the birth canal.Your partner can help support you while you hold certain positions and help you to remain upright if possible so that gravity can assist your baby. Many women find squatting or kneeling on all fours the most comfortable, or if you really need to lie down, get your partner to support one leg so that the pelvis can remain as open as possible.

How long will the first stage of labour last?
The first stage of labour lasts until the cervix is fully open, or ”dilated” (see p.181). Women tend to time their labour from the first contractions, but midwives and other healthcare professionals don’t start to time a labour until it is ”established” once contractions are coming regularly, roughly once every three or four minutes, and lasting for about 45 seconds to one minute, and the cervix is around 3cm dilated Due to the difference in how labours are timed, you may hear about labours that lasted 50 hours and others that lasted two! On average, for first-time mothers labour lasts around 12-14 hours. If it continues after this time, the doctor may want to investigate why labour is not progressing
Once labour is established, healthcare professionals usually expect the cervix to open at an average rate of half a centimetre an hour. However, there are huge variations in this average,
and a labour can still be progressing normally with a slower or faster rate of dilation Your midwife will keep you informed about how things are going during your labour, and don’t be afraid to ask how things are progressing.
Is it best to stay upright in early labour?
It is thought that keeping upright and mobile can help labour to progress and make the pain easier
to manage. This is because in an upright position the baby’s head can press down onto the cervix and in turn stimulate it to dilate, and also gravity helps the baby to move down through the pelvis.
I’m having a trial of labour-how long will I be allowed to be in labour for?
A trial of labour is something that is done if, for example, a woman has had problems in pregnancy.
I’m scared in case I poo in labour, how will I feel?
You are not alone — lots of women are very nervous at the idea of pooing while they are in labour. It may not be what you want to hear, but in fact a large number of women do poo, usually during the second, or pushing, stage of labour. This is totally natural and happens as the baby’s head comes down the vagina and pushes against the rectum, where faeces are stored. The faeces are then forced out of the anus and this is totally beyond your control. It is unlikely that you will be aware of pooing at this stage — the overwhelming sensations of birth will be more powerful! Midwives and doctors are very used to women pooing, and will simply wipe it away without a second thought. Also, sterile cloths will be placed around so it will be easily cleared away.
Will I tear when the baby comes out?
Some women do sustain some degree of tearing during the birth of their baby Unfortunately, it is impossible to tell whether you will tear or not until the actual delivery Some tears only involve the skin and may not require any stitches However, others can involve the skin as well as the muscle underneath and the vaginal canal, and this will require stitches Stitching will be performed by an experienced midwife or doctor after you have had a local anaesthetic injection. There is some evidence to suggest that regularly massaging the perineum, which is the area between the vagina and anus, during late pregnancy may help avoid tearing (see p.111) Allowing the baby’s head to be born slowly can also help to prevent tears (see p 186).
What does a “skin-to-skin” birth mean?
”Skin-to-skin” is a phrase that means cuddling your naked baby against your bare skin. Many women wish to have skin-to-skin contact with their baby straight after the birth. This can help with bonding, the baby’s temperature control, and the initiation of breastfeeding. As long as you and your baby are well, there should be no reason why this cannot be done — having your baby cleaned, weighed, and dressed can wait a moment. Most health professionals now recognize the importance of this early skin-toskin contact, and will help you achieve this if that is what you wish. Communicate your thoughts and desires to your midwife as early as you can following admission to the labour ward, so that the midwife can plan your birth to try and meet your wishes.
What is the third stage of labour?
The third stage of labour lasts from after the birth of the baby until the placenta, or afterbirth, and membranes (the amniotic sac your baby has been growing inside) have been delivered. This stage can last for around 10-15 minutes to an hour, depending on whether you have drugs to speed it up (see below).
How does the placenta come out?
After the birth of your baby, the uterus starts to contract again and the placenta shears away from the wall of the uterus and passes out through the vagina. This will not feel the same as giving birth to the baby as the placenta is soft and squashy and much smaller! You may have had an injection to speed up this part of labour, and this is referred to as a “managed” third stage (see below). If this is the case, your midwife will apply gentle traction to the umbilical cord to guide the placenta and membranes out. If you are having a natural third stage, you won’t need an injection, which may mean that this part of labour lasts a little longer, and the midwife will encourage you to deliver the placenta and membranes by pushing, and perhaps squatting over a bedpan Your midwife will advise you as to whether a natural or managed third stage, or a choice between the two, is most suitable for you
What happens when you have an injection for the third stage of labour?
Women are usually offered an injection of syntometrine during the baby’s birth. This is a mixture of two drugs, syntocinon and ergometrine, both of which help the uterus to contract and so speed up the delivery of the placenta and membranes This is also thought to help prevent the risk of heavy bleeding. Having this injection means that the third stage of labour lasts about 10
to 15 minutes. If you have raised blood pressure you will be offered a slightly different injection - just the syntocinon - as ergometrine is known to stimulate a rise in blood pressure.
What happens to the placenta?
checking the afterbirth
The placenta has sustained your baby during her nine months in the womb, and what happens to it after its delivery is a common question.
* The placenta will be checked to ensure it is complete and has been delivered successfully If it looks healthy, it will be disposed of in the hospital
* It may be taken away for analysis in a laboratory if there is anything untoward in its appearance.
* Some cultures perform ceremonies with the placenta; and in some parts of the world there is even a tradition of eating the placenta
However, if your pregnancy, labour, and birth have been straightforward, there is no reason why you should not have a ”physiological”, or natural, third stage of labour.
What will happen once my baby has been delivered?
Once your baby has been born, if all is well, you will be encouraged to hold him and get to know him. The placenta and membranes will be delivered and the midwife will examine your vagina and perineum to see if you need stitches, which will be done under a local anaesthetic When you are ready, your baby will be checked over (see p.217), labelled with your name and her date of birth, weighed, and dressed. If she hasn’t fed already, the midwife will help you with the first feed You and your partner may also be offered tea and toast, which is usually most welcome! Before going onto a postnatal ward, you will be helped to wash and go to the toilet. If you and the baby are fit and well, you may be able to go home within a few hours, sometimes straight from the labour ward, providing you have all the help you both need.
If you have a Caesarean, you will be moved to a ‘recovery” room near to the theatre for up to two hours to observe your breathing rate, pulse, and blood pressure. Your incision and vaginal blood loss will be checked as will your fluid levels, and the midwife will help you to breastfeed your baby. You will then be moved to a postnatal ward.
It all sounds very “busy”. Will we be left alone at all once the baby is born?
Many couples look forward to having some time alone together after the baby’s birth in order to start to get to know, and bond with, their baby in private. There shouldn’t be a problem with this, as long as neither mum nor baby has any medical problems The midwife will make sure you know how to call for assistance if you need it. You would usually be taken to a postnatal ward about two hours after your baby’s birth, if all is well Or an early discharge home may be an option.

The three stages of labour
How your labour -progresses
Your labour is divided into three stages. The first stage begins when you have regular contractions that widen your cervix: the second stage starts when your cervix is fully dilated and ends with the birth of your baby; and the third stage is the delivery of the placenta and membranes
What is the first stage of labour? The first stage of labour describes the process in which your cervix dilates (progressively opens because of the womb contracting) from being tightly closed to being around I Ocm - wide enough to get the baby out, or ”fully dilated”. During this first stage
of labour, contractions generally start off gently and don’t last very long - about 30-45 seconds. It is now recognized that you are in established labour only if you are 4cm dilated. Prior to this stage, the contractions you have been feeling have been
The birth of your baby
ripening (effacing) your cervix During the early stages of labour, it is a good idea to rest and eat carbohydrates such as toast or pasta, so that you will have some energy when the contractions really kick in. This is called the latent stage of labour. Once the contractions do start coming regularly, staying active is beneficial in that it can help labour become established, as gravity will help press your baby against your cervix Going to bed could result in labour ceasing altogether. In a first labour, the time from the start of established labour to full dilation is between 6 and 12 hours, although it is often quicker for subsequent labours.
What is “transition”? Towards the end of the first stage of labour, you may feel a great urge to push with each contraction. This period, when you are between 8-1 Ocm dilated, is called transition. It may
be brief, or could last up to an hour, and is often seen as the most challenging part of labour. You will need to resist the urge to push if you are not fully dilated, and may need to use breathing techniques - such as blowing out in little puffs - to help you.
What is the second stage of labour? Once your cervix is fully opened (fully dilated), this is known as the second s-age of labour At the beginning of the second stage, you may experience a pause in contractions, but they will resume and you will be ready to push your baby out with each contraction. Your contractions will now be very close together and very strong, lasting 60-90 seconds, for which you will probably need pain relief (see p. 174). Most hospitals will limit the length of the pushing stage to less than three hours You will soon see your baby
What is the third stage of labour? The third stage of labour is the delivery of your placenta. This is the afterbirth that has been feeding your baby during pregnancy You will be offered an injection
of syntometrine to speed this process up and reduce the risk of heavy bleeding, or you can to wait until the placenta comes away naturally If you choose a natural, or physiological, delivery of the placenta, this can take from 30 minutes to one hour, and you tend to bleed a bit more than if you have an injection.

A natural breech birth
If you are having a natural vaginal delivery with a breech birth, this will be carefully handled by an obstetrician. A vaginal breech birth can be slower than a head-first, cephalic, delivery as the bottom doesn’t push down as much The obstetrician will
guide the baby out. Usually, the buttocks are delivered first and then the legs will be carefully guided out The baby may then be rotated to deliver the shoulders as smoothly as possible Lastly, the weight of the baby helps to draw the head down for delivery
or has had a previous Caesarean. This allows a woman to be in labour long enough to determine if a vaginal birth may be possible. It is hard to say how long you will be allowed to labour for, as the length of time depends on how your labour is progressing and the opinion of the medical staff caring for you.
Your labour will be closely monitored, with your midwife regularly assessing its progress to check that the cervix is dilating as expected and that the baby is moving down through the pelvis. You may be offered continuous monitoring of the baby’s heartbeat (see p.192) and would be close to medical assistance in the event of a Caesarean being needed.
When will I be fully dilated?
”Fully dilated” means that your cervix is fully open so that your baby can move down the vagina and be born. When your labour begins, your cervix is either closed, or only one or two centimetres open The contractions of the uterus gradually open it further until it is completely open. Once this happens, you are in the second stage of labour, which lasts until the birth. The point at which your cervix is fully
dilated can occur quite quickly after the onset of strong, regular contractions, or can take many hours.
What is meant by “transition” and why do people say it’s the worst bit?
Transition describes the.period of time between the end of the first stage of labour and the onset of the second, or pushing, stage. Contractions are usually at their strongest and most frequent at this point It can last from a few minutes to over an hour, and in some cases may not happen at all. The transition period is often characterized by a woman feeling exhausted, fed up, unable to cope, shaky, or nauseous. In films and books, this is often the time when a woman swears and gets a bit mad with her partner! It is usually around this time that the first feelings that you need to push begin.
If you experience any of the unpleasant symptoms of transition, it helps to focus on the fact that your baby will soon be born. Try to keep your breathing slow and regular, and focus on your partner and midwife for additional support.

Positions for the first stage of labour
In the early stages, many women prefer to walk around, and being active helps labour progress. If you get tired, sitting on a chair leaning forwards can be comfortable, as can kneeling over a birthing ball or pillows Some women find sitting on the toilet comfy! If you want to lie down, lying on your left side is best as the pelvis isn’t restricted and can open as the baby moves down, and the blood flow to the baby is not affected

Dilatation
In the early stages of labour, the cervix begins to soften, known as effacement, and then starts to widen, or dilate, so that the baby can pass through it and out of the vagina The baby’s head cannot pass through
the cervix until it is I Ocm wide and fully dilated The time this takes varies with each labour, Some women are several centimetres dilated at the start of labour while others take several hours to reach this stage.
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How will I know I’m in labour?

How will I be able to tell that I’m really in labour?
The one completely sure sign that you are in labour is that you are experiencing regular contractions that are causing your cervix (the neck of womb) to dilate or open, and this can only be determined by your midwife or doctor during an internal examination.
True labour contractions are usually painful, occur very regularly and grow stronger and more frequent as time goes on There are other signs that labour could be on its way, such as a mucous vaginal show or discharge (see below), but these are not true indicators that labour is actually underway.
If you are unsure about whether you are in labour, you could try timing your contractions from the beginning of one to the beginning of the next and note how often they occur. If you are in labour. then you will notice them becoming closer together and increasing in duration If you think you are in labour, always call your midwife or your nearest delivery unit for guidance and advice.
What is a “show”?
During pregnancy, a plug of jelly-like mucus seals the lower end of your cervix and this prevents infection getting into your womb. This “plug” comes
away towards the end of pregnancy, and although this can mean that labour is going to start soon, it
can also dislodge up to six weeks before your labour actually starts. When the plug comes away, this is commonly referred to as a ‘’show’.
There was some blood with my show - is that OK?
Yes, it’s normal for a show to contain a small amount of either fresh blood or dark old blood (like at the end of your period) as part of the clear or cloudy mucus of the plug.
At which point should I ring the hospital?
If you are experiencing regular contractions that are getting closer together and increasing in the amount of time that they are lasting, then labour may well have started. When your contractions are around 5-10 minutes apart, you should phone the birthing unit for further advice
Other situations when it is recommended that you phone are if you think your waters have broken, your baby’s movements have slowed and become less frequent, you experience any bleeding, or you are in pain and not due for delivery
Never worry about phoning for advice; it is better to be well informed than to sit at home worrying about things Always carry essential contact numbers in your bag and keep them by the phone at home, as you never know when you may need to seek advice or when your labour may begin
What do people mean when they talk about your “waters breaking”?
The ”waters’ are the amniotic fluid contained in the membranous sack surrounding and protecting your
baby in the womb These membranes usually split or break towards the end of the first stage of labour. This means that the fluid continues to cushion the baby’s head and prevents direct contact with the cervix at first, helping you to cope with the pain. Eventually, the pressure causes the membranes to burst, releasing the amniotic fluid, which leaks or gushes through the vagina.
What should I do once my waters have broken?
If there is quite a large gush then you will be in no doubt about what has happened Sometimes, however, the waters break and produce a small trickle, which leaves you in some doubt as to whether they have broken If you think your waters have broken, I suggest putting on a sanitary pad and examining it after a short while to see if there is amniotic fluid visible If you are still unsure then always phone your midwife or local maternity unit for individual advice. Occasionally, the membranes can break early for other reasons, for example if the mother has an infection, or they may break for no apparent reason.
Can I have a bath after my waters have broken?
If there are no complications in your pregnancy and labour then you should be able to have a bath which you may also be using for pain relief. Indeed, using water in labour has been assessed in many trials and most show that women report a significant reduction in pain (see p.156)
Studies have found that there is no increase in the risk of infection rates in women who bathe in water following the spontaneous rupture of their membranes If you are unsure about this, ask your midwife about your local hospital’s guidelines, as most maternity units have specific policies to ensure safe practice regarding the use of water for both labour and birth.
What is a false labour?
False labour can be a number of things It can be a series of contraction-type pains that subside after a number of hours and that do not have the length, strength, or regularity to actually dilate the cervix, or neck of the womb. Braxton Hicks contractions very close to your due date can also be
Relaxing in early labour
You will probably spend early labour at home with your partner, timing contractions and deciding when to travel to the hospital if that is where you are giving birth. As this part of labour can continue for a considerable amount of time, possibly with periods when contractions stop altogether, try to spend time relaxing in between contractions to conserve energy for later. There are simple things you can do at home to help you relax. You can have a warm bath, get your partner to massage your back, stay mobile but rest if you need to, eat nutritious snacks, and drink fluids to give your body fuel to work well later. Contact the maternity unit or your midwife if you have any questions confused for tabour. With these, you do experience your uterus tightening and relaxing and there is a degree of discomfort. Braxton Hicks contractions are a sign that your uterus is preparing for the contractions of tabour If this is your first pregnancy, you may be unsure how to tell the difference between these practice contractions and the real thing. Real labour contractions are more regular, powerful, and usually more painful Some women barely notice these practice contractions, while for others they are quite uncomfortable. If this is the case, it can help to move around or have a warm bath to ease the discomfort.
Is it true that I will have to go to hospital if my waters break, even if contractions haven’t started?
If your waters break before your contractions have started, most maternity units have a policy that you should be seen by a midwife, either at the maternity unit or at home, to determine if you and your baby are both well. The main concerns when the waters break are the position of the umbilical cord -whether it is stuck in front of the baby’s head - and to rule out any chance of infection, and the answers to these two questions will determine the plan of care you will be offered
You may be offered an examination to look at the cervix to see if there is fluid leaking and, if so, its colour, and to take a swab of the area to determine if there are any bacteria that could pose a problem for the baby A cardiotocograph (CTG) may be performed, which monitors the baby’s heartbeat over a short period to identify if there are any signs that the baby is distressed (see p 192). If all is well with you and the baby, you will be able to return, or stay at, home to await events, although a further appointment may be made to discuss further options should your contractions not start within a specified time. This timescale varies and may be as little as 24 hours or as long as 96 hours if all remains well.
Around 85 per cent of babies are born within 48 hours of the waters breaking, even if there are no contractions initially.
Calling the midwife
Although each woman has a different experience, here is a rough guide for when to call the midwife and when not to call the midwife.
* Don’t worry about calling the midwife if your contractions aren’t regular, occurring just once or twice an hour, as these may be Braxton Hicks (see opposite).
* Don’t call the midwife if you have only had a show (see p.167).
* Do call the midwife if contractions are strong and regular, every 5-10 minutes * Do call the midwife for advice if your waters have broken.
How will I be able to tell the difference between real contractions and Braxton Hicks?
Labour contractions have several specific characteristics. They are very regular and over time increase in regularity and length, and they are also painful Most start as a period-type pain or backache that again increases in intensity over time. The other difference that you may or may not be aware of is that the cervix dilates (opens up) in response to true labour contractions, but does not with Braxton Hicks. One thing that may indicate this is happening is if you experience a show (see p 167)
What do labour contractions feel like?
Generally speaking, women feel contractions as a painful tightening of the muscles of the uterus Although they actually start at the top of your bump and progress to the bottom of the bump, you may experience more pain and a feeling of pressure in the lower part of your abdomen and pelvis as the baby is pushed down by the contraction.
Some women experience the pain in their tummy, while others experience labour pain as backache Generally, contractions tend to start as something that can be compared to a severe period pain,
gradually increasing in intensity; however, the degree of pain felt will be different for all women.
We’re having a home birth -what if the midwife doesn’t show up?
Arrangements for contacting the midwife when you are having a home birth will vary depending on where you live; however, certain things will be the same no matter where you are. Once you are 37 weeks pregnant, the midwives will be ”on call” for your delivery Your midwife will talk to you about the local procedure for contacting the midwife on call, which may be directly through a mobile phone or pager, or indirectly through the labour ward at your local maternity unit If you experience labour before you are 37 weeks, you will be asked to go to hospital as this is considered ”preterm ‘ labour (see p.161).
Once you are experiencing strong regular contractions, contact your midwife via the route you have been advised. If your labour starts in the daytime, midwives will be on duty m the area; if ifs evening or nightime, it might take them a little while to reach you, so bear these differences in mind Also, bear in mind factors like the traffic on the roads during rush hours, which may make it advisable to let the midwife know about your contractions sooner rather than later!
Most NHS Trusts have a policy of two midwives attending your home birth; in some areas, both midwives will be there throughout the labour and birth, while in others the second midwife will be called by the first midwife nearer to the delivery so that two midwives are in attendance at the birth In the worst case scenario, if your labour progresses rapidly and a midwife hasn’t arrived, contact your local maternity unit who may be able to arrange for paramedics to attend you until the midwife arrives. Please bear in mind that it’s very rare to have a home birth without your midwife being present and that babies who do arrive quickly usually do so with very little added complication.
They sent my friend home from the hospital - I don’t want that to happen to me.
Labours differ and are dependent on so many factors, and your friend’s circumstances and your own are likely to vary enormously. Unless you have been specifically advised to go to hospital early once you think labour has started, then the best place to be in the early stages of labour is at home. In first pregnancies, the first stage of labour, when your cervix dilates to around I Ocm (see p. 181), averages at about 12-14 hours. So if you go to hospital very early on they may well suggest you go home until labour is a little more advanced. Although you may feel that you want to stay at the hospital ”just in case”, unless you have to travel a great distance to and from your local maternity unit, you are likely to be more comfortable and relaxed in your own surroundings
Are there situations when you can’t eat or drink in labour?
The recommendations by NICE for labour are that
all women should be allowed to drink water in labour, and that isotonic, or sports water, may be slightly more beneficial because of its higher calorie value and quick absorption into the body, Eating light snacks, even in established labour, is recommended as long as you haven’t had opioid painkillers, which include pethidine and diamorphine, and there are no other risk factors that would make a general anaesthetic more likely. Most women find that they want to eat in early labour, but find that they cannot face food later in the first stage although they still want to drink
Will I be able to drive myself to hospital when labour starts?
Driving while in labour isn’t advisable and could be very dangerous to yourself, your passengers, and any other road users, including pedestrians. If you are in labour, you will be having regular painful contractions and this will interfere with your ability to focus and drive a car and will also diminish your awareness of your immediate surroundings. In other words, -you will be very distracted!
As the general advice about labour is to stay at home for as long as you feel comfortable this means that by the time you are travelling to hospital you will be in very established labour and so your ability to drive would be very much diminished
Another consideration is your insurance cover; if your driving is impaired because of pain you may well invalidate your insurance cover. The safe option is to get someone else to drive or to take a taxi.
How likely is it for a first labour to progress so quickly that you don’t make it to hospital?
In first pregnancies, labour usually lasts for 12-14 hours, with contractions building in intensity and length. Most women are happy to stay at home for the early part of the first stage, and get an idea of when they want to be in hospital as their contractions get more regular It is unusual with first babies, but not unheard of, for labour to be so quick or for you to have no sign of contractions, that you leave it too late to get to hospital Although this also depends on your distance from the hospital, traffic delays, or other factors that may increase your journey time
What are the signs that it is too late to go to the hospital?
Generally speaking, if you are having an uncontrollable urge to push, then that’s the point
where it may be too late to reach the hospital before your delivery If you did find yourself in this unfortunate circumstance, contact your local maternity unit who will arrange for paramedics to attend you for the delivery of the baby In some areas, they will also ask an on-call midwife to attend the birth. Or you can contact the emergency ambulance services yourself
Can I check how dilated I am myself or get my husband to do this?
There is one school of thought that believes that vaginal examination of the cervix shouldn’t be done routinely in a normally progressing labour by anyone, and that would include you and your partner. There are several reasons for this One is that some women find it a very uncomfortable procedure and staff gain very little information other than that the woman’s labour is progressing. Another reason is that it introduces the the risk of infection If you are having strong, regular contractions, your cervix will be starting to dilate, and any examination should be carried out by a trained midwife or obstetrician under ‘’sterile” conditions to limit the risk of infection. There is also the potential that whoever is doing the examination may break the bag of waters that are surrounding the baby before they would have broken naturally.
So although it might be possible to feel your own cervix depending on what stage of labour you are in, this isn’t something that is generally recommended.

Not Getting Pregnant FAQs.

We’re not getting pregnant what do we do now?
We’ve been trying to conceive for 12 months - can the doctor identify the problem?
There are many factors that can increase or decrease your chances of becoming pregnant, but if you have been trying for a year, it would be sensible to contact your doctor. After an initial assessment of your general health and lifestyle, your doctor will offer your partner a sperm test (see below) and you will be offered tests to see if you are producing eggs and check whether or not your Fallopian tubes are blocked. Blood tests will be carried out to check your iron levels, your red and white blood cell count, and to check how organs such as your liver and kidneys are functioning In addition, couples are asked to agree to a sexual health screening to check for previous or current STls, such as HIV and syphilis.

My wife has been tested and has the all clear - how can I tell if I’m causing our fertility problem?
You will be offered a semen analysis to determine your sperm quantity and quality — how sperm move (motility) and whether they are a normal form. A healthy sperm count should have a concentration of 20 million spermatozoa per millilitre of semen, with
75 per cent of these alive and 50 per cent of these ‘motile”, or moving as well as possible Differences can occur over time in both the quality and quantity of sperm, so if your first sample is poor, you will probably be tested again a couple of months later.
You are also likely to be advised to give up smoking, reduce alcohol intake to 1-2 units once or twice a week, and to wear loose-fitting underwear to avoid overheating the testes If a problem is found, you will be referred to a specialist for a consultation Try to avoid becoming stressed as this can also affect fertility Learning relaxation techniques with your partner and practising these regularly will help.

We can’t conceive naturally - what do we do now?
Assisted conception; or assisted reproduction, is the term used when women are helped to conceive without having intercourse There are five main procedures available, listed below. Your consultant will go through each one with you, and together you can make a decision about which is most suitable depending on your problem. You can also contact the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE) for more information (see p.310)
* Ovarian Stimulation (OS), or Super Ovulation (SO), involves injections of fertility hormones to boost egg production This is followed by intrauterine insemination (IUI) of sperm, whereby sperm are collected and sorted so that only the strongest remain and these are then artifically placed inside the uterus via a catheter. This is ideal for couples when the man’s sperm is “slow” or the woman has problems ovulating, or there is a combination of both. * Gamete Intra-Fallopian Transfer (GIFT). This is suitable for couples for whom no cause for infertility has been found. It involves stimulating the ovaries to produce eggs, which are removed, mixed withsperm and replaced directly into the Fallopian tubes, allowing conception to occur inside the body.
* In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). This is the most widely used treatment and involves a seven-step process (see below and p.30) This is ideal for most problems including blocked tubes
* Intra-Cytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI). This is used if the man’s sperm count is low, the motility of the sperm is very poor, or the woman is allergic to her partner’s sperm. The treatment involves injecting just one viable sperm into an egg (see box right). * Artificial Insemination by Donor (AID). This is simply the injection of donated sperm into the cervix This is used when a man is unable to maintain an erection or is sterile Similarly, women may require an egg donation if they are unable to produce their own eggs, although this is more complicated.
Whatever treatment is provided, it is important that you and your partner are treated as a couple rather than separate patients. It is also essential that you are kept informed throughout the process and given information on any risks and benefits.

What does IVF involve?
IVF, or In Vitro Fertilization, involves the surgical removal of an egg which is then mixed with sperm in a laboratory dish to fertilize and produce an embryo outside of the womb (see p.30).
IVF treatment occurs in cycles, as there are various stages that must be completed for it to be successful. Initially, a drug is used in the form of a nasal spray or injection to switch off the woman’s natural cycle of egg production in the ovaries, known as ”clown-regulation”. Fertility drugs are then given to stimulate the ovaries to produce more than one egg (ovulation induction). Mature eggs are collected from the ovaries using a fine needle guided by ultrasound. The procedure is usually uncomfortable rather than painful. On the same day, the partner’s sperm is collected and then the eggs and sperm are mixed in a dish. Within a few days, one or sometimes two embryos are transferred into the womb. If an embryo successfully attaches to the inside of the womb and continues to grow, a pregnancy results.

ICSI

This procedure may be used when it is thought that the quality of the partner’s sperm may be responsible for fertility problems. If the sperm count is low or movement is poor, sperm may be ”assisted” in fertilizing the egg. An individual sperm is injected directly into the egg and, if fertilization takes place, the resulting embryo is placed in the uterus.
What are the success rates of fertility treatments?
Success rates for treatments vary, depending on the treatments used and the health of the couple If you want to know the success rates of individual clinics, you can ask for their ratio of “live-births-per-cyclestarted”. This information is available from each clinic, but there are currently no nationally held data
Overall, couples have a better success rate if the woman is aged 23-39 years, has been pregnant or has had a baby, and has a normal body weight (a body mass index between 19 and 24). The older a woman is, the less likely she is to get pregnant
Figures show that for every 100 women who are 23 to 35 years, more than 20 will get pregnant after one PVT cycle; from 36 to 38 years around 15 will get pregnant at 39, around 10 will get pregnant; and in women over 40, around 6 will get pregnant

IVF is so expensive - can we get help with funding?
Since April 2005, women between the ages of 23 and 39 are entitled to one free IVF cycle on the NHS. However, you must meet the eligibility criteria set by your local Primary Care Trust (PCT), which varies across the country and depends on factors such as your marital status, weight, and whether you or your partner smoke Couples who can afford to, or who may have had one unsuccessful cycle already, often opt for a private clinic Although these are regulated by the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA), this cannot set costs, and a private course of IVF can cost from E4,000 to £10,000
My partner is worried about producing his sperm sample. How can I reassure him?
As fertility problems affect 1 in 7 couples in the UK reassuring your partner that this is not an unusual situation is always a good start. You could try leaving out a leaflet on fertility problems for him to read for more information Try to empathize with him as much as possible by sharing your experiences and the tests you have undergone.
Your partner may be worried about ejaculating at the required time when he is already feeling anxious and is in a clinical environment Some men require a sex toy, magazines, or video clips to help. For others, restraining from sexual intercourse for a few days can make ejaculation easier If you live fairly close to the clinic, your partner may be able to produce the sample at home and deliver it.
Sometimes a medical condition such as diabetes prevents a man ejaculating If this is the case, sperm can be obtained through ‘’sperm recovery”, whereby a small needle is passed through the skin of the scrotum into the testes and sperm is withdrawn.

The drugs I’m taking for IVF are giving me terrible mood swings. Is this normal?
The drugs used in IVF treatment are female hormones (see p.30) to stimulate your ovaries to mature more than one egg at a time, and progesterone, which helps to sustain a pregnancy. Different levels of hormones can result in mood swings, as any woman who suffers with premenstrual tension (PMT) can testify, and this is also a common side effect of IVF treatment It’s worth considering too that couples undergoing IVF are under incredible stress, which has been linked to an increased risk of developing depression, so it’s important to decide whether you are feeling ”hormonal” or are in fact depressed. Your doctor can advise you and refer you if necessary.
My partner has a low sperm count - can you tell us what help is available for us?
Usually, two or three semen samples are taken to work out the average sperm count and to see if there are abnormal sperm present. A healthy semen sample of 2-5ml contains more than 20 million sperm per ml; a count below this is considered low If your partner has abnormal sperm, further testing may be necessary Lifestyle changes can boost sperm (see below). There are also hormonal treatments to improve sperm count and surgery to remove blockages You may be reassured to know that even poor-quality semen can be used to fertilize an egg with IVF or with ICSI (see p.29).
Can lifestyle changes really improve sperm?
Poor quality sperm has been linked to excessive drinking (more than three or four units of alcohol per day), smoking, and to wearing tight-fitting underwear,
which overheats the testicles and can affect their efficiency Excessive stress and a poor diet are also thought to affect sperm So yes, it is worth reviewing your lifestyle to see if improvements can be made Jobs that may expose you to harmful agents, such as pesticides, may also affect sperm, so if you think your partner’s job may pose a risk, it’s worth investigating.
I’m pregnant using a donor -what happens if my child wants to trace her biological dad?
From April 2005, children who were conceived using donor sperm have had a right when they reach 18 years of age to find out their parent’s identity. This also applies to children conceived using donor eggs and embryos. This right applies only to children conceived after this date and not retrospectively. Prior to this date, children had the right to know at 18 years of age if they were conceived using donor sperm, eggs, or embryos and to find out if they were related to someone they wanted to marry. The reason for this change in the law is that children conceived in this way are being given the same rights as adopted children regarding information on their genetic parents. However, some fertility experts fear that this will deter potential donors.
Is surrogacy allowed in the UK?
Currently, surrogacy is legal in the UK, although it is illegal to advertise it as a service However, the law does not recognize surrogacy
as a fixed agreement, which means that a surrogate can change her mind about the arrangement during the pregnancy and up to six weeks after the birth. It is usual for a surrogate to receive ”reasonable expenses”, although there is no definition of what is deemed as reasonable. Usually, this includes costs incurred by the surrogate relating to her pregnancy, If the father of the child is named on the birth certificate, this gives him equal rights to the child. If this is not the case, then six weeks after the birth the new parents can apply for a parental order that gives them full parental status At this point, the surrogate gives up any parental rights to the child.

Conception problems

There are a range of reasons why a couple may have difficulty in conceiving. Investigations and tests may uncover specific conditions, which may be treatable, or you may be offered help to conceive.
What can affect a man’s fertility? A semen analysis may reveal various reasons why sperm have difficulty in fertilizing an egg The sperm count may be low (less than 20 million sperm per ml); the motility of the sperm (how they move) may be poor, and there may be a high percentage of abnormally formed sperm Some men experience a failure to ejaculate at orgasm There may also be damage to the tubes that connect the testicles to the seminal vesicles where sperm are produced, and this may have been present from birth or caused by a later infection
What can affect a woman’s fertility? Conditions such as polycystic ovary syndrome
(a hormonal imbalance that causes ovarian cysts) and endometriosis (see p 19) can disrupt fertility. Other hormonal imbalances, such as low levels of FSH and LH, can affect ovulation; or levels of progesterone may be too low to sustain a fertilized egg. Damaged Fallopian tubes, caused by an ectopic pregnancy (see p 25), surgery endometriosis, or pelvic inflammatory disease, which may be caused by an infection such as chlamydia, can prevent conception. Damage to the ovaries can occur from scarring as a result of surgery or infection, or the supply of eggs may be low Some women have an abnormally shaped uterus, or have uterine scarring, that can prevent the successful implantation of an egg.

IVF treatment

In vitro fertilization or IVF, is a complex procedure with several stages, from the stimulation and harvesting of your eggs to the successful fertilization of the eggs, development of embryos and transfer of the embryos into the womb for implantation. Undergoing IVF can be a stressful and time-consuming undertaking, but knowing in advance how the procedure works and what you can expect at each stage can reduce anxiety and help you and your partner to cope.
What happens first? To optimize the chances of success with IVF more than one egg at a time is removed for fertilization Normally, your body produces one egg each month. In rVF, you will inject yourself with drugs, such as clomiphene and hMG (human menopausal gonadotrophin) to stimulate your ovaries to produce several eggs. While you are undergoing this treatment, you will need to visit your clinic every one to two days over one or two weeks to monitor the development of the eggs. Once it is thought that the eggs are mature, you will be given a blood test to measure your levels of oestrogen, which is released around ovulation.

What happens next? Once your follicles are ripe and ready for ovulation, your eggs will be collected at the clinic using ultrasound or laparoscopy to guide a probe. Once the eggs have been collected, they will be mixed with your partner’s sperm in a Petri dish in a laboratory ready for fertilization Your partner needs to produce the sperm on the same day as the egg collection. He can either do this at home, or come into the clinic with you and produce the sperm while you are undergoing the egg collection procedure.What happens in the laboratory? Once the egg and the sperm have been mixed, they are placed in the laboratory and monitored closely for the next few days. They will first be inspected around 18 hours later to see how many of the eggs have been fertilized and the clinic will usually pass this information on to you the day after the procedure It’s quite common for not all of the eggs to be fertilized and for only two or three to develop into embryos. The fertilized eggs are incubated in the laboratory over the next couple of days and their progress measured. The laboratory technician watches cell division under a microscope, waiting for the eggs to divide into two or more cells on their journey to becoming a blastocyst (see p.21).
If one or more fertilized eggs develop in the laboratory, you will be called back in for the embryo transfer, This is done by injecting eggs through a catheter into the uterus. No more than two eggs will be transferred and you will have the option to freeze any remaining embryos.

Surrogacy
A surrogate mother is a woman who reaches an agreement to carry a baby on behalf of another woman. She can either conceive the baby with the partner’s sperm, in which case she is the maternal mother, or the infertile couple may fertilize their own egg through fertility treatment, which is then transferred into the uterus of the surrogate mother for her to carry the baby through pregnancy and deliver at birth. This process can be beset with problems: such as the conflicting emotions of both the surrogate mother and the receiving couple, or legal issues if, for example, the surrogate mother has a change of heart after the birth and wishes to keep the baby, For this reason, it is important that all parties entering into the agreement have carefully considered the implications and are confident and happy in their roles.

Miscarriage FAQs. I’ve had a miscarriage why did it happen to me?

What is a miscarriage?
A miscarriage is the spontaneous loss of a baby at any time up until the 24th week of pregnancy After 24 weeks the loss is referred to as a stillbirth. The signs of a miscarriage are vaginal bleeding and period-like cramps. As not all miscarriages follow the same pattern, there are various terms to describe what occurs:
* A threatened miscarriage occurs when there is bleeding and possibly pain, but the fetus survives. * An inevitable miscarriage occurs when there is bleeding and pain due to contractions in the uterus, the cervix opens, and the fetus is expelled.
* A missed miscarriage occurs when the fetus dies but remains in the womb and either is expelled naturally later or removed in an operation

I’ve recently miscarried - why did this happen?
Miscarriage occurs in 10-20 per cent of pregnancies In the vast majority of these the cause is never identified, but it’s unlikely to be related to anything you did or didn’t do. There are thought to be several reasons why miscarriages occur (see p 25) There may be a genetic problem, in which the baby or placenta doesn’t develop normally, levels of the pregnancy hormone progesterone may be low; there may be an immune disorder m which the mother 3 immune system reacts against the pregnancy; an infection may be present; or there may be problems with the uterus or cervix. Miscarriages tend to be more common in older women.
The Miscarriage Association (see p.310) offers support and up-to-date advice and information about miscarriage. You may feel comforted to know that, statistically, any future pregnancy you have is likely to progress normally.
My period was late and now I’m bleeding really heavily -could I be having a miscarriage?
In the absence of a positive pregnancy test or a pregnancy confirmed by an ultrasound scan, it is difficult to know whether or not you were pregnant If you have had unprotected intercourse in the time since your last period, it is possible that you could have been pregnant and this is a miscarriage The lateness of your period may give a clue, but won’t confirm one way or another. If you have any other symptoms of pregnancy it might be worth doing a pregnancy test as sometimes, even when there has been bleeding, a viable pregnancy is discovered
However, it could also be a late period for no other reason than that this happens on occasion to everyone. A delayed period can be caused by  weight loss or gain, stress, or if you have been taking the oral contraceptive Pill but missed a dose.
Talk to your doctor if the bleeding continues:
you feel faint or experience palpitations; your period lasts for longer than seven days; you have more than six well-soaked pads a day; or if you have any severe abdominal pain Your doctor can carry out a blood
test to check your iron levels and possibly determine if you have been pregnant, in which case an incomplete miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy will need to be ruled out (see p.25)

I’m 10 weeks pregnant and getting cramping pains. Do I need to rest to avoid a miscarriage?
Cramping pains on their own without vaginal bleeding or spotting can occur at this stage of pregnancy. Sometimes pain can be felt as the ligaments stretch when the baby and -your uterus grows. There are also other possible causes for the pain aside from miscarriage, such as constipation or a urinary tract infection
Many doctors advise rest to avoid a ”threatened” miscarriage, but there is no strong evidence that this makes any difference to the outcome of a pregnancy If you feel like resting because you are in discomfort from the cramping pains then do rest, but if you feel happy continuing as normal then that may be the best option for you Soaking in a warm bath and practising relaxation techniques may ease the intensity of the pain If the pain increases or you get any bleeding or spotting, contact your doctor.
Does bleeding in pregnancy mean that miscarriage is inevitable?
No, many women experience bleeding in early pregnancy and then proceed to have a healthy pregnancy and baby. Indeed, some women have intermittent bleeding throughout pregnancy, Despite this, any bleeding should be investigated. This is usually done with a scan to determine if the pregnancy is viable (going to continue) and to identify if there is any indication of where the
bleeding is coming from. In very early pregnancy, it can be hard to see the pregnancy on a scan and a blood test to measure levels of the pregnancy hormone human chorionic gonadotrophin (hCG) may be done, mainly to rule out the possibility of an ectopic pregnancy (see p.25) Unfortunately for you this is a time of waiting; the timing of any further scans is usually determined by the findings of the initial scan and blood tests and the symptoms you are experiencing.

I’ve had three miscarriages before and I’m scared of trying again - is there anything I can do?
It is understandable given your experiences that trying to get pregnant again is a scary proposition. Following a third miscarriage, it is usual for your doctor to offer you a number of investigative tests
to see if a reason for the miscarriages can be found. In some cases, a cause is identified and treatment can be offered to help improve the outcome for subsequent pregnancies.
You are likely to be given a number of blood tests. These are to look for antibodies (proteins in the blood that fight any substance they recognize as foreign to your body), chromosomal abnormalities, and infection. You may also have a vaginal examination and swab and an ultrasound scan to check your womb and tubes. If a chromosomal abnormality is found, genetic counselling should be offered to discuss the implications for future pregnancies. The levels of the hormones progesterone and prolactin may also be checked as these can play a role in miscarriage. Sometimes, the cervix is found to be weakened and likely to open early If this is the case, you may be offered a cervical stitch that acts like a drawstring on the cervix and hopefully prevents future miscarriage or premature delivery
If you haven’t already been offered these tests, talk to your doctor about them before trying to get pregnant again so that you can begin any recommended treatment as soon as possible
My mum had two miscarriages -does that mean I am more likely to miscarry?
Ask your mum if she was given any particular reason for her miscarriages If for example, she knows that they were due to a chromosomal abnormality, such as sickle-cell disease, or if she had a medical condition such as heart disease, then there is a possibility that the condition is hereditary and the risk of miscarriage may be the same for you too.
However, it’s most likely that your mother’s miscarriages were unfortunate chance occurrences for which no reason was found If this is the case, then you are at no more risk of experiencing a miscarriage than any other woman your age. However, if you do become pregnant, it would be worth mentioning your mother’s pregnancy history at your initial antenatal appointment, as your family medical history is an important part of your medical notes during pregnancy.

I’ve had several miscarriages and my doctor has referred me to a genetic counsellor - why?
A genetic counsellor is a highly trained professional who supports families before and after conception. Quite often a miscarriage is caused by a genetic abnormality in the fertilized egg or embryo. This is usually a one-off and can affect any woman. However, if a woman has recurrent miscarriages, it may be that she is carrying a genetic condition
Women and their partners are referred to a genetic counsellor if either partner has a condition that can affect future children or the chances of becoming pregnant or continuing with a pregnancy (as they may be more likely to miscarry or be offered a termination) For example if there is a history of sickle-cell disease, a blood disorder that causes chronic anaemia and increases the risk of a preterm birth and health problems in the baby, it may be that either or both couples are carrying a gene that can affect a baby.
A genetic counsellor helps you understand how your genes could affect conception and pregnancy and about the tests available to determine if a fetus is affected. The counsellor will discuss a range of
issues, including the moral and ethical issues related to genetic testing, as it is common for couples to feel stress, guilt, and confusion in this type of situation.

I lost my baby, but I want to get on and try again - is this OK?
Although there are no hard rules about when to try for another baby, it is important that you allow yourself time to grieve and your body to recover before trying to conceive again. Some women feel able to try again within a month, while others may not feel ready for at least a year. Whatever you feel, it’s wise to let your hormones and body settle down after a miscarriage before considering another pregnancy. The usual advice is to wait for at least three months before trying to conceive again so that you feel both emotionally and physically prepared for another pregnancy. Your partner also needs to feel that the time is right for you both to try again.

We had a miscarriage at 20 weeks. Will the doctors find the cause so that we can move on?
Coping with the loss of a baby well into pregnancy is difficult and upsetting. Many women ask themselves why a miscarriage happened and feel unable to move on until that important question is answered. Unfortunately, unless this was a recurrent
miscarriage of three or more, there may not be an investigation, although it may be suggested that you have a cervical stitch in future pregnancies to stop the cervix dilating too early (see p 24)
It may be worth talking to a counsellor who
is trained to support women and families through such difficult times, your doctor or midwife may be able to refer you. You may find that discussing your miscarriage directly with a health professional helps to answer any concerns you or your partner have, and by communicating in this way you will have started to move forward and may begin to feel able to consider planning another pregnancy

My partner had a miscarriage. I’m being supportive, but I’m devastated too. What should I do?
Dealing with a miscarriage is very difficult for both women and men, but often far more attention is given to a woman, and a man’s feelings are simply ignored However, it’s important that you don’t internalize your loss and do acknowledge your feelings, which may range from feeling scared, disappointed, and out of control, to blaming yourself for not being supportive enough and mourning the loss of your identity as a father. Although you want to support your partner, you also need to recognize your own need to grieve, as working through your emotions can help you to come to terms with your loss more quickly
A good support network is important for both of you and it can help to find a sympathetic listener outside of your relationship. Initially, you may find discussing your feelings with another male easier than talking to your partner. You could also talk to your doctor, the midwife, or a counsellor, or contact the Miscarraige Association helpline.

What is a “D and C”?
D and C stands for dilation and curettage, a surgical procedure in which the opening to the uterus, called the cervix, is stretched (dilatation) and the tissue that lines the uterus is scraped away or removed (curettage). This procedure is sometimes carried out after a miscarriage to ensure that any of the remaining products of the conception and pregnancy have been removed
There are advantages and disadvantages to consider before having a D and C. The procedure is usually completed within two hours and most women resume their usual activities within a week. However, the need for routine surgical evacuation, or a D and C, following a miscarriage has been questioned because of potential complications, such as bleeding and infection. Ask your doctor for advice There are less invasive options than a D and C for dealing with a miscarriage. One method is simply to watch and wait to see if the uterus will spontaneously expel any remaining products of conception. Another option is a drug treatment that works by stimulating the uterus to contract and naturally expel pregnancy tissues.

The risk of miscarriage
There are several factors that can increase your risk of miscarriage.
Older women have an increased risk of having a miscarriage. It is thought that this is largely due to the fact that older women are more likely to have babies with chromosomal abnormalities, which may have problems developing and miscarry Some underlying medical conditions can also increase your chances of miscarriage, such as polycystic ovary syndrome or fibroids. Other factors that can increase your risk are if you are particularly underweight or overweight, smoke drink heavily, or take recreational drugs.
Miscarriages are also more likely the more pregnancies you have had.

Talking to others
Losing a baby during pregnancy can be devastating, leading to feelings of grief such as anger, depression, guilt, and anxiety. Talking to others can help you to work through your feelings.
* Ask your midwife or doctor to put you in touch with a counsellor who specializes in pregnancy loss
* Let close friends and family members know how you are feeling
* The Miscarriage Association is a great source of support and advice (see p.310). * Talk to your doctor or midwife about why the miscarriage may have happened.

Possible causes of miscarriage

About 1 in 4 first pregnancies ends in miscarriage, generally within the first 12 weeks. Often no cause is identified and it may not be investigated unless a woman has had three or more miscarriages in a row, known as ‘recurrent miscarriages”
Why has it happened? Some miscarriages occur because of a one-off genetic problem (caused by a faulty chromosome) when the baby does not develop properly. Genetic problems account for 60 per cent of early miscarriages If you think this may have been the cause, you can request tissue tests from the baby. Based on these results, you may be able to receive specialist counselling to discuss the risk of it happening again (see p.24). After 12 weeks, the chances of you losing your baby because of a chromosomal disorder reduce to about 10 per cent: however, if
Ectopic pregnancy
you are over 35, this risk is higher. Other less common causes of miscarriage include fibroids (non-cancerous growths), infection, problems with the uterus, hormonal imbalances, and immune system disorders. An ectopic pregnancy. below, occurs when the embryo implants in a Fallopian tube and needs to be removed
What can cause late pregnancy loss? A late pregnancy loss (referred to as a stillbirth after 24 weeks) can be due to the cervix being weak (or ‘incompetent’), causing the cervix to dilate too early. This accounts for 15 per cent of repeated miscarriages. In future pregnancies, a stitch around the cervix can strengthen this muscle and prevent it opening early Another cause of a late miscarriage can be if the placenta does not function properly and affects the baby’s growth.
fertilized egg implants in tube