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Why isn’t the baby out yet?
assisting the birth
What is an assisted delivery?
An assisted delivery is one that uses either forceps or a ventouse, or suction cup (see p.204), to help extract the baby from the birth canal if the baby is not making good progress during labour or there are complications during the second stage of labour in a vaginal delivery You will still be helping to deliver your baby with your contractions, but the instrument used will be helping to guide the baby out of the birth canal.
How is an assisted delivery carried out?
Assisted deliveries are carried out using either forceps or ventouse (vacuum extraction) by a doctor (or specially trained midwife) Forceps are metal instruments specially shaped to fit around the baby’s head, whereas in the ventouse method, a vacuum is created by attaching a cup-like fitting to the head and using a mechanism to create suction to help draw your baby out.
How do they decide whether to use ventouse or forceps? Will it be my choice?
Both forceps- and ventouse-assisted births are relatively safe procedures and, although each has pros and cons, it’s best to be guided by the doctor, as the choice of instrument usually depends on the position of the baby and the doctor’s preference or experience, although your opinion will be taken into consideration. Although forceps used to be the most widely used instrument, ventouse has increased significantly in popularity. Many consider ventouse easier to use and less likely to cause damage and tearing to the mother. However, this method is also more likely to cause swelling to the baby’s head where the cup was placed
What is a “prolonged second stage” and does this mean that the delivery will be assisted?
It is difficult to define a ”prolonged second stage” as it depends on certain factors, for example if it is your first baby the position and size of the baby, if you have an epidural, if the contractions are effective and how often they are coming, how well you are pushing, and if the pelvis is an adequate size There is some evidence to suggest that if the baby has progressed further into the pelvis, and there is no sign of distress. then there is no need to put a time limit on labour. However, it does tend to be the case that hospitals have guidelines as to how long they will allow a woman to push for before deciding that intervention may be necessary Usually, after about one and a half hours, doctors may decide to assist the delivery to reduce the risk of fetal distress and of the mother becoming exhausted.
I had a forceps delivery as in the end I was too tired to push. Is this likely to happen again?
An assisted delivery is more common during a first birth than in subsequent ones. The first pregnancy and birth causes the pelvic ligaments to stretch, which can make subsequent births easier, and the uterus is often more efficient in contracting the second and subsequent times around, which also means that labour is usually shorter Often, even if the baby’s head is not in the best position for birth, for example if the baby is in a posterior position, where the back of the head is towards the mother’s spine and lower back, it may be delivered without assistance during a second delivery Therefore, it is likely, but by no means certain, that you will have a normal vaginal delivery next time.
Can I refuse to have forceps or vacuum extraction and what are the alternatives?
No-one can go against your wishes if you do not want to have a particular procedure. However, it’s usually best to have a flexible approach to labour. Although you may wish for certain things not to take place, the doctor or midwife is likely to have a good reason for wanting to carry out a procedure and has your and -your baby’s best interests at heart. If an assisted delivery is suggested, asking the midwife or doctor to explain and support this decision can help you to come to terms with it. Usually the only other alternative to an assisted delivery would be a Caesarean section: however, this may be difficult if the baby has gone too far into the pelvis
Will I have an anaesthetic before they use the forceps?
Suitable pain relief, such as a local anaesthetic injection, or an epidural, will be given before the procedure The doctor will then help to pull the baby out while the mother pushes. The forceps and ventouse cup are removed after the head has been delivered, and the body is delivered normally,
What can go wrong at an assisted birth?
Forceps and ventouse can cause bruising, swelling, and marks on the baby’s head or face, although these usually resolve without any problems within a few days In rare cases, cuts and severe bruising on
Assisted delivery
An assisted delivery, using forceps or a ventouse vacuum extraction, may be carried out for one or more of the following reasons:
* The mother is exhausted from a long labour and has insufficient energy to push.
* The baby is showing signs of distress during the second stage of labour.
* The baby’s head is in a slightly wrong position -if you are in the second stage of labour, forceps or ventouse can often be used to turn the head around and deliver the baby.
* Forceps are sometimes used to protect the delicate head of a premature baby during birth
* Forceps are sometimes used to deliver the head of a breech baby
* If the baby is particularly large - this can be the case when the mother has had gestational diabetes .
the baby can occur. The paediatrician, a doctor who specializes in babies and children, may prescribe a paracetamol-based medicine to ease any discomfort that the baby may feel There is also an increased
risk of the baby developing jaundice, where the baby looks yellow due to the presence of the waste product bilirubin (see p.164), particularly in cases of severe bruising The levels of bilirubin in the baby will be checked if the doctor is concerned and the condition can be treated, if necessary
For the mother, the two main concerns are that there is an increased risk of tearing or being cut during the procedure - and hence an increased risk of more bleeding (which can be dealt with straight away) - and, rarely, damage may occur to the tubes that lead from the bladder.
If the situation warrants an assisted delivery, the benefits of delivering babies by these methods far outweigh the risks. If the procedure is not successful, an emergency Caesarean may be necessary.

Helping your baby’s birth

A delivery may be assisted using either vacuum extraction (or ventouse), which involves a small suction cap (metal or plastic) being placed on the back of your baby’s head and very gently pulled, or forceps, metal tongs that guide the baby out.
Why might this be necessary? There are several reasons why the obstetrician, and in some units the midwife, will advise this type of birth.  Generally an assisted delivery is carried out because the mother is too tired to carry on pushing after a prolonged second stage of labour, and the ventouse suction cap or forceps can help accelerate the baby’s progress through the birth canal. An assisted delivery may also be necessary if your blood pressure has risen suddenly or if there are signs of fetal distress You will be given either an epidural or local anaesthetic before the procedure is carried out
Is it safe? This is a safe way for your baby to be born, although there is a very small chance that your baby may bleed under his scalp and may need to go to the neonatal unit to be cared for and monitored after the birth, After vacuum extraction, most babies will have a little bump (a ”chignon”) where the soft cup has been attached to the head, and the baby s head may look slightly elongated Babies delivered by forceps may have marks on the sides of the head where the tongs were. However, any swelling or marks should disappear within a few days
Will I need an episiotomy? An episiotomy - a cut made between your vagina and back passage to make more space for your baby to be born in order to prevent tearing - is sometimes carried out if you have an assisted delivery, and is more likely with a forceps delivery.

Episiotomy
An episiotomy is an incision, or cut, made with scissors into the area called the perineum, which is the piece of tissue between the vagina and the anus. This area stretches and thins during the birth to allow for the baby’s head to be born with ease An episiotomy is performed only in an emergency situation An example of this is if the baby needs to be born quickly, or sometimes during an assisted delivery for example with forceps (see opposite), to prevent uncontrolled tearing Before the procedure is performed, a local anaesthetic is gently injected into the muscle to reduce the discomfort or pain during the procedure. An episiotomy will need stitching afterwards, and this is usually done by the midwife who has been involved in your delivery or by the obstetrician involved in the birth. Although episiotomies used to be routine around 10 to 15 years ago, they are now performed only when really necessary You should be informed why one is being recommended and give your verbal consent before the procedure is carried out.

MEDIO-LATERAL CUT:
What is an episiotomy and why might this be done?
An episiotomy is a cut along the muscle between the vagina and anus, known as the perineum, to widen the area where the baby will be delivered (see above) This is done only when absolutely necessary and will not be performed without your consent. There are several reasons why an episiotomy may be recommended including if the baby is in distress, to speed up the delivery of the head; in cases of forceps or ventouse deliveries! if the baby’s head is too large to pass through the vagina; if the perineum has not stretched sufficiently by the end of the second stage of labour to allow the smooth passage of the baby’s head through the vagina; if there is a complication in the vaginal delviery of a breech baby: or if the mother is finding it difficult to control her pushing while the baby’s head is crowning (see p. 186), which means she is more likely to tear significantly during the delivery
Usually, local anaesthetic is injected into the muscular area first and the procedure is performed at the strongest part of the contraction, as this distracts you from what is being done and assists with a quick delivery
The thought of having a cut down there is terrifying. What can I do to prevent this?
Some studies have shown that massaging the perineum regularly in pregnancy, using an unscented vegetable oil, can reduce the risk of tearing (see p.111) as this helps to make the area more flexible and may consequently help to stretch the area as the head is being born Wash your hands thoroughly before massaging the perineum. Although an episiotomy may be a worrying prospect, if you are advised to have one, this may prevent uncontrolled tearing.
Why might they do an emergency Caesarean section?
Emergency Caesareans are carried out for several reasons. The baby may be showing signs of being very tired, picked up by the fetal heart monitor or a blood test carried out during labour, and this could lead to the baby being distressed, known as fetal distress, in which case a Caesarean may be recommended Rarely, the umbilical cord comes down before the baby, a condition known as cord prolapse, and this is an emergency that requires immediate delivery by Caesarean.

The end of pregnancy

When will I start my antenatal classes and what types are there?
Antenatal, or parent education, classes start around 32 weeks and, if you are attending classes run by your local NHS trust, are free. The classes may run for 4-6 weeks, or some trusts have a monthly afternoon session. Some hospitals provide women-only classes evening or weekend classes and yoga and pilates classes (see p 60). There are also private or independent, midwives in most areas who may offer antenatal classes on a one-to-one or small group basis.
Antenatal classes are also available from the National Childbirth Trust (NCT), run by trained NCT teachers Classes are usually held in the evenings, making them more accessible to partners and friends, and they often provide ongoing postnatal support for up to six months after the birth. There is a fee, although in some cases a reduced fee or assisted places may be offered
Aquanatal classes are also popular These are gentle exercises in the swimming pool along with other pregnant women and often the teacher is a midwife who also provides antenatal information. Also many obstetric physiotherapists run relaxation and breathing technique sessions; your hospital antenatal clinic may have information on these.
What will I learn in my hospital antenatal classes?
Antenatal classes usually cover a different topic each week, including the physical changes that occur in pregnancy, the three stages of labour; hospital, home, and water births; pain relief, which should include breathing and relaxation techniques; breastfeeding; postnatal care of the baby; and changes in your relationships The most popular topics tend to be the stages of labour and pain relief, along with a tour of the maternity unit
Is it useful to learn and practise breathing and relaxation exercises before the birth?
Preparation before labour and delivery is
for most women and their partners, and breathing relaxation techniques in particular help you to focus on your breathing. which in turn can help you to fee- less tense and increase your confidence for dealing with the contractions Antenatal classes teach you
specific techniques and antenatal yoga (see p 60) also helps you to gain control through breathing
Should I practise positions for labour and birth beforehand?
Practising for labour is a good idea as you may find some positions suit you and others don’t (see below). This information can be documented in a birth plan (see p.149) so that it is available for your midwife to discuss with you. It’s also good for your partner to know your preferred positions during labour
Do you have any suggestions for labour positions?
Some popular positions for labour area
* Leaning on a work surface or the back of
a chair. Putting your arms round your partner’s neck or waist to lean against.
•    Leaning on to the bed in the delivery room
•    Kneeling on a large cushion or pillow on the floor and leaning forwards on to the seat of a chair * Sitting astride a chair and resting on a pillow placed across the top
* Sitting on the toilet; leaning forwards, or sitting astride. leaning on to the cistern.
•    Kneeling on all fours.
•    Kneeling on one leg with the other bent
•    Rocking your hips backwards and forwards or in a circled this can also be done using a birthing ball Ally of these positions can make your contractions Breech presentation
Breech position is when your baby is bottom first instead of head first. Breech babies lie in one of three positions: a flexed, or ”complete’ , breech, when the hips are bent, the thighs against the chest, and the knees bent with the calves against the back of the thighs and feet above the bottom; an extended. or
‘frank”, breech when the hips are flexed or bent the thighs against the chest, and the feet by the ears; and a ”footling” breech, like a flexed breech, but the hips aren’t so bent and the feet are below the bottom If your baby is breech at term, your doctor may recommend delivery by Caesarean section
more efficient and help you feel in control When you are in strong labour, you may find that you don’t want to move around much and will find a position that suits you If possible, keep rocking, leaning forwards during contractions, and straightening up in between. If you get tired, lie down on your left-hand side, rather than propped up on your back, which stops the pelvis being able to open effectively. Lying on your left side is much better for your baby than lying on your back because he receives more oxygen, and the contractions are still effective in this position. If you feel rested after a while, push yourself up with your hands into a sitting position and get up again
I’m 36 weeks and my baby is breech. Is this a concern?
Breech position is when your baby is bottom first instead of head first (see above) Quite a lot of
babies sit in the breech position in pregnancy and there is still a chance your baby will turn. It’s not until about 37 weeks that your midwife or doctor will focus on your baby’s position.
Is there anything I can do to help my baby turn?
If your baby is breech towards the end of pregnancy there are some exercises you can try in an attempt to turn your baby A ‘knee-chest” position can help To do this, kneel on your bed with your bottom in the air and your hios bent at just over 90 degrees Try to keep your head, shoulders and upper chest flat on the mattress Adopt this position for 15 minutes every two waking hours for five days If you feel nauseous or light-headed, do not continue. Positions in which the buttocks are elevated can also help, and sleeping with a pillow under your buttocks or kneeling on all fours so the weight of your pregnancy is unsupported may help You can combine ”all fours’ positions with household chores, such as cleaning the floor. If these are not successful, there are other ways to try to turn your baby (see below).
I’ve heard about doctors “turning” breech babies. How does this work?
Some obstetricians may try to turn a breech baby in late pregnancy, known as external cephalic version (ECV), which has a success rate of around 50 per cent. During an ECV, an obstetrician gently moves your baby by pressing his hands on your abdomen, using an ultrasound as a guide You may be given a drug to relax the uterine muscles You will be scanned first and if the baby is in an awkward position the procedure may not continue. Also, if your baby is large this can affect the procedure, as can the amount of fluid around the baby, as a low amount of fluid offers less protection to the baby, If you are Rhesus negative, you will have an injection of anti-D after the ECV (see p.79) because of a small risk of a bleed around the placenta An ECV is not recommended if you have a multiple pregnancy, have had bleeding in pregnancy, your placenta is low-lying, your membranes have ruptured, or there is a known problem with the baby
The procedure is not without risk and some think it only works with babies who would have turned anyway. If your baby remains breech, a Caesarean may be advised, although some obstetricians are willing to try a vaginal delivery You are not obliged to have an ECV and should discuss your options.
Finally, a form of acupuncture called
I f moxibustion”is sometimes used, whereby a fragrant herb is held over an acupuncture point, the aim being to relax the uterine muscles to help the baby turn Talk to your doctor or midwife before trying this and seek advice from a qualified acupuncturist.
What triggers labour?
While there are many theories, no one really knows what triggers labour One is that the mother’s pituitary gland secretes oxytocin, the hormone that
stimulates contractions, when the baby is ready to be born Others now believe that the baby starts labour by sending a signal to the mother’s body One theory is that a baby’s lungs secrete an enzyme when they are developed that causes a substance called prostaglandin, which triggers contractions, to be released into the mother’s body. Another theory is that, when the baby is ready to be born, its adrenal glands produce hormones; these cause hormonal changes in the mother that start labour
I don’t want to go overdue. How can I help labour to start?
Various methods have been tried, although none is proven. Popular methods include having sex, as the prostaglandins in semen are similar to the ones used to induce labour; stimulating your breasts to trigger the release of the hormone oxytocin, which stimulates the uterus; eating spicy food to bring on a loose bowel movement, thought to stimulate labour (see p 48) ; and taking long walks to help the baby move down in the pelvis and put pressure on the cervix Homeopathic remedies are also available; consult a registered practitioner for advice.
I’ve heard that raspberry leaf tea can start labour. Is this true?
Unfortunately this is a misconception as raspberry leaf tea doesn’t actually help to bring on labour, but it may help to reduce the length of labour In a study m Sydney, 192 first-time mums were given either a 1.2g raspberry leaf tablet or a placebo twice a day from 32 weeks. The tablet had no harmful effects. and the women who had taken the supplement had a shorter second stage of labour and a lower rate of assisted delivery (19.3 per cent to 30.4 per cent).
Raspberry leaf tea contains an alkaloid, ”fragine”, said to strengthen and tone uterine muscles, helping them to contract more efficiently. You should start taking raspberry leaf tea during the last eight weeks of pregnancy At 32 weeks, you could have one cup of raspberry leaf tea a day, gradually increasing to four cups or tablets a day (depending on the strength of the blend). The tea can be sipped in labour, too.

Fetal positions
Your baby in the uterus
Your baby can lie within your uterus in many different positions. Your midwife or doctor will palpate your abdomen (gently feel your tummy) to identify which way your baby is lying. There are two main positions in which your baby will lie: with his head downwards (cephalic presentation) or with his buttocks downwards (breech presentation). Occasionally your baby will lie across your uterus in a transverse position or even diagonally across you in an oblique position, particularly if there is too much fluid around the baby or you have had several babies previously. In about 17 per cent of cases, the midwives and doctors do not identify a breech presentation until the labour itself
What is LOA and ROA? Once your midwife has identified how your baby is lying, she will also try to determine whether the baby is lying on your right or left side The midwife will track where
Your baby’s position
your baby’s back is, and you will generally feel kicks on the opposite side. The midwife will describe your baby as being LOA or ROA, which stands for left or right occipital anterior -the occiput being the back of your baby’s head facing forwards, so your baby is actually facing backwards These are the best positions for your baby to lie in for labour.
What if the baby isn’t anterior? Sometimes babies lie in a posterior position, which means that their back is lying against your back and they are looking upwards This position may prolong your labour, which can be tiring If this is the case, you can try the same exercises for turning a breech baby (see p.143) to encourage your baby to turn to be in an anterior position towards the end of pregnancy Sometimes your baby will only turn with the help of strong, effective contractions when you are in fully established labour.

What is the “nesting instinct” and is this just a myth?
The nesting instinct is a well-documented natural phenomenon In the final weeks of pregnancy, many women have an uncontrollable urge to clean their house and to prepare and make the ”nest’ safe for the new arrival This is a primal instinct and females of the animal kingdom are all equipped with this need. Just as birds make their nests preparing for their young, mothers-to-be do exactly the same.
The act of nesting puts you in control and gives
•    sense of accomplishment You may also become
•    homebody and want to retreat into the comfort of your home and familiar people The nesting urge can be an indicator that labour is not too far away If you have the energy, take advantage and get on with tasks that you won’t have time for after the birth
Is it true that first babies are often late?
Birth normally occurs at a gestational age of 37 to 42 weeks and, while it certainly isn’t the case that all first babies are late, many do arrive after the predicted
due date. From the point of view of waiting if you approach the end of your pregnancy expecting your baby to be a couple of weeks late, then you may avoid feelings of frustration. It is worth considering that your body has never done this before and that your “due date” is an estimate, the majority of babies do not arrive on this date
I’m 39 weeks and my baby’s head isn’t engaged. Should I be worried?
Not all babies engage into the pelvis before
the beginning of labour It is likely, from about 36 weeks onwards of -your pregnancy, that you may experience your baby moving lower down in your abdomen, causing your baby’s head to enter the pelvis. This process is known as ”engagement’I and simply means that the leading part of the baby has ”engaged” the pelvic brim (see p.148) This is normal and helps to position your baby in preparation for the birth later on.
Engagement often happens earlier with first
babies because the uterine muscles have not been
Your hospital bag
Although hospital visits tend to be short, with many women staying around 24 hours or less after a normal delivery you will need a few essential items. Many mums have a bag for themselves and one for the baby, while others organize a labour bag and postnatal bag for mum and baby. It’s up to you. Basic requirements include:
•    Clothing for labour (including socks and/or footwear).
•    Nightwear.
Toiletries
A towel, sanitary pads disposable pants and a bra.
iIc Music, books, and magazines, as well as money, telephones, phone numbers, and cameras.
* A food bag with nutritious snacks to keep you going
For your baby you will need:
* Clothing, cleaning materials, and some clothes for returning home * Nappies (check with your midwife if the hospital provides these or whether you need to supply your own).

Engagement
Engagement is when your baby’s head starts to move down into the pelvic brim in preparation for birth, and this can occur any time from around 36 weeks until the start of labour In the last weeks of pregnancy, your midwife will palpate your abdomen to see if the head has started to engage. The degree to which a baby’s head is engaged is measured in fifths. If three- or four fifths of the head can be felt above the pubic bone, then
the baby is not engaged If only two-
fifths of the head can be felt, then the baby is said to be fully engaged, and if just one-fifth is felt, the baby is recorded as being deeply engaged.
previously stretched and so they tend to exert more pressure on the baby, moving it down into the pelvis earlier: whereas a second or third baby may not become engaged until your labour actually starts. When your baby’s head engages can also depend on other factors, such as the position in which your baby is lying within the womb (see p.145) and the shape of your pelvis
Am I likely to feel any different once my baby’s head has engaged?
Many women report feeling more physically at ease following the engagement of their baby’s head as there is a release of pressure within the abdomen As a result, you may find that it feels easier to breathe, sleep, and walk around
On the other hand, sometimes when the baby’s head engages this can increase the pressure on your bladder and you may experience a sensation of fullness and pressure between your legs. Many women also report shooting vaginal pains. Engagement is also likely to affect bowel sensations.
My midwife mentioned checking the position of the placenta. Is this normal?
This is not routine, but if your 20-week scan indicated that the placenta was low-lying, known as placenta praevia (see p.92), your midwife would suggest a further scan at 34 weeks to see if the placenta had moved up and away from the cervix.
My baby isn’t moving so much now - should I be worried?
There is some natural reduction in the range of your baby’s movements towards the end of pregnancy as he has less room to stretch his limbs However, you should still be familiar with your baby’s pattern of movement in later pregnancy as this is a good indicator of your baby’s health and is just as important as the number of movements a day (see p.103) You may find at this stage that your baby is developing a pattern for waking and sleeping, often different to yours, so your baby may be awake when you go to bed and may start kicking Or your baby may get the hiccups and you will feel the jerk of each hiccup, a sign that your baby is preparing for life after delivery. If your baby’s movements have reduced or stopped, contact your maternity unit. You could also try things like having a cold or hot drink, having a bath or shower or massaging your tummy. A formal assessment may be recommended and if there are concerns, you will be asked to make a conscious effort to increase your awareness of when your baby moves. There should never be fewer than 10 individual groups of movements a day between 9am. and 9pm. Some areas have walk-in antenatal day units (ANDLJ) where you can have a cardiotograph (see p.192) to record your baby’s movements.
I’m practically incontinent. Is there anything I can do to stop this?
During pregnancy, many women find that they leak urine slightly when they cough, laugh, exercise, bend over, or lift something. This is known as stress incontinence. The pelvic floor muscles are under strain during pregnancy as they have to support the weight of your growing uterus and cope with the changes caused by pregnancy hormones. As a consequence, a sharp increase in abdominal pressure when you cough and so on may be too much for the muscles to hold back the flow of urine. Stress incontinence may happen at any time in pregnancy, but is more common towards the end.
The best treatment for incontinence is regular pelvic floor exercises to keep the muscles toned (see p.57). Taking some gentle exercise each day can also help and, although you may not make a full recovery during pregnancy, regular exercise now will minimize the problem and help you towards a full recovery after your baby is born. Stress incontinence is often worse for a few days following the birth, when the muscles of the pelvic floor and other structures are recovering If it does not get better after this time, talk to your health visitor or doctor as you should not have to suffer long term without help.
Ask your midwife to refer you to your obstetric physiotherapist, who can review the problem and offer you advice and monitoring.
Birth plan
Stating your preferences for labour and birth
The purpose of a birth plan is to communicate your wishes for labour and birth.
Your plan can be as detailed or as brief as you like Do bear in mind that circumstances may dictate that not all of your preferences are met Discuss this plan with your midwife before the birth. Here are some suggestions of what to include:
* You may want to state who your birth partner will be, whether you want more than one birth partner, and if you want them present throughout. * You could include your preferences for managing labour pain Do you want to labour naturally (maybe using a birthing pool), or do you have a preferred type of medical pain relief? *You can state which positions would you like to use in the different stages of labour? Do you want to be active in the first stage, and in which position would you prefer to deliver your baby?
* Do you have concerns about being strapped to a fetal monitor? If so, do you want to request that this be done intermittently only?
* State your preferences for after the birth. Do you want your baby delivered on to your tummy, and how soon do you want to breastfeed?

What’s happening to my body?
how your body changes
I’m feeling like a beached whale and I’m only 16 weeks, what can I do?
Weight gain during pregnancy is not only due
to the baby, placenta, and amniotic fluid, but to a number of factors. Changes in your metabolism, the development of certain organs such as the uterus and breasts, and an increase in your blood supply causing more fluid retention and swelling,
all contribute to your weight. In addition, extra stores of fat are laid down as pregnancy requires more energy for the work involved in developing the fetus and coping with the demands of labour. Although most of this fat is stored in the first 30 weeks, weight gain is usually slower at the beginning of pregnancy and suddenly increases in the second half.
The average weight gain is 12 5kg (271b), 4.5kg (101b) of which is gained in the first 20 weeks, and the remainder thereafter. If you feel you have put on more than this, my advice is to eat healthy, smaller, more regular meals and take some gentle exercise.
People keep telling me I’m too small, but the midwife says everything is fine. Can you explain?
Tell them to mind their own business! If your midwife says she is not worried, then I would feel reassured -some women just hide a pregnancy very well! Your midwife starts to measure your tummy at around 26-28 weeks, as by then the major organs are more or less developed and your baby is concerned with growing and laying down fat supplies. Most units use personalized growth charts that are designed to take into account your individual traits such as your race and height, which influence how big your baby is likely to be By taking these factors into account, your midwife can predict more accurately the expected weight and measurements of your baby.
I’m 17 weeks and my breasts have changed - they’re painful and look different. Is that normal?
It’s perfectly normal and very common to
experience breast changes in pregnancy. These are caused by both an increased blood supply and a rise in pregnancy hormones, particularly in the
first 12 weeks. Before your pregnancy was confirmed you may have felt tingling sensations (especially in the nipple area) as the blood supply increased. As early as 6-8 weeks, breasts can get larger and more tender and may begin to look different on the surface, with threadlike veins starting to appear. At around 8-12 weeks, the nipples darken and can become more erect, and as early as 16 weeks, colostrum, the first milk, may be expressed.
Why am I getting more vaginal discharge since becoming pregnant?
In pregnancy, the layer of muscle in the vagina thickens and this, combined with an increase in the pregnancy hormone oestrogen, causes the cells in the vagina to multiply in preparation for childbirth. As a side effect, the extra cells mean that there is an increase in vaginal discharge, known as leucorrhoea.
If you feel sore or itchy and the discharge is anything other than cream or white, or smells, see your midwife or doctor so that a swab can be taken to rule out infection Some infections: such as thrush, cause an abnormal discharge They are common in pregnancy and are easily treated.
Dark patches have appeared on my face. What could they be?
The dark patches on your face are called “chloasma’ or `pregnancy mask” and these patches affect around half of pregnant women. Nearly all pregnant women notice some changes in skin colouring, with skin usually darkening from 12 weeks. This is due to an increase in the hormones that stimulate skin pigmentation, with darker-skinned women affected more. This darkening may be more apparent on certain areas, such as the nipples, perineum (skin between the vagina and anus), and naval, or areas that experience ”friction rubbing”, such as the inner thighs and armpits. You can reduce or prevent dark patches on your face by minimizing your exposure to the sun and using high-factor sun creams.
I’m a model and I’m worried I’ll get stretch marks. Is there anything I can do to avoid them?
I appreciate your concern, especially as looking good affects your work. Stretch marks, also called striae gravidarum, are thought to be connected to the collagen and elastin content of your skin rather than to how much your stomach expands They occur as the collagen layer of the skin stretches over areas of fat deposits on the breasts, abdomen, and thighs. Unfortunately, there are no pills, creams, or magic lotions that can influence whether or not you will get stretch marks or, if you do, how badly you will get them, although taking regular exercise can help you to maintain an ideal weight during pregnancy and so minimize your chances of developing stretch marks.
Take comfort from the fact that although the marks may be red and livid in pregnancy, in the months following the delivery they lose their colour, usually becoming silvery-white and less obvious.
My tummy is really itchy. Is it safe to use moisturizers on my skin in pregnancy?
As your abdomen grows it can become itchy as the skin stretches You can use moisturizers on your body in pregnancy, and these may relieve the discomfort. Choose non-perfumed lotions oils, or creams to avoid further irritation Rubbing almond oil, vitamin E, or wheatgerm oil over the abdomen may also help.
Eating a healthy diet with fruit and vegetables and drinking plenty of clear fluids to keep you well hydrated will also help the condition of your skin.
I can’t look in the mirror as I’m feeling so depressed about my size. Will things get better?
You are not alone in battling with your self-image in pregnancy For many women, their changing body shape can create very negative feelings Eating a healthy diet and taking some exercise helps to keep weight gain to a minimum, and exercise will help to lift your spirits and improve your sense of wellbeing. There is no set emotional response to pregnancy, but as well as coming to terms with a momentous life and body change, you are also under the influence of fluctuating hormones, all of which affect your moods and add to feelings of negativity.
Mild depression in pregnancy is often helped by reassurance and support from your partner, family, or friends. Talking over your fears and concerns with your partner, or with other pregnant women at antenatal classes, may help to relieve your anxieties -you will probably find that other pregnant women are experiencing the same feelings.
If your depression is very severe and you
feel desperate, consult your midwife or doctor as antenatal depression is now recognized as having an effect on pregnancy and birth outcomes, with studies showing a possible link between medication given to treat depression in pregnancy and a lower birth weight and increased risk of premature birth. Your doctor or midwife may refer you for counselling, and some areas hold group classes for pregnant women suffering from antenatal depression.
Why do people talk about the second trimester as the time when pregnant women “bloom”?
For many women, the second trimester is the most enjoyable part of pregnancy. As women find themselves released from the draining symptoms of early pregnancy, this can lead to an upsurge of energy and many find it easier to eat, sleep, and work. Many women also notice that their skin is glowing and their hair is glossier than usual. It is also around this time when you first feel your baby move and, as your baby grows, you start to notice a definite bump and begin to look pregnant - changes that can help you feel more positive and excited
However, not all women feel this way A sizeable minority of women don’t feel any better as the second trimester progresses, with nausea, tiredness, and other symptoms continuing unabated Some may find it hard to come to terms with physical changes such as weight gain, or skin and hair changes. If this is the case, it’s important to remind yourself that almost all of pregnancy’s downsides clear up as soon as the baby is born. If you’re feeling particularly down or low on energy it may be a sign of other problems, such as anaemia (see p 81) Speak to your midwife or doctor for further advice.
I’m worried that my husband doesn’t find me attractive any more. Am I being paranoid?
Self-image can be a big problem with pregnant women and many worry that they are unattractive to their partners in the latter stages of pregnancy This worry is usually unfounded and more to do with their own feelings about their increased size. Keeping anxieties bottled up can make them seem bigger than they actually are, so talk to your husband about your worries and explain how you are feeling. He may be completely unaware of what you are thinking
As your husband isn’t carrying the baby he cannot truly understand the physical demands of pregnancy. Informing him about the changes your body is going through can help him to understand the process of pregnancy and be better equipped to
provide support when you need it most Some men actually find their partners more attractive during pregnancy but you won’t know this unless you talk to each other about your changing shape.
If you are worried about gaining too much weight in pregnancy, focus on eating a healthy, balanced diet (see p 50) and take some light, daily exercise. Even if this is only a short walk or swim, it will help to keep you toned and supple, which will help your confidence as well as prepare you for childbirth
Can I wear high heels?
Although lots of pregnant women continue to wear the same footwear during pregnancy, it is advisable to avoid heels and opt for a flatter shoe, particularly as your pregnancy progresses.
Later in pregnancy, your posture and centre of balance changes, as your increased weight is now mainly at the front of your body. In addition to this, increased levels of hormones secreted during
pregnancy, such as relaxin, make the joints and muscles of the body more lax So wearing high heels can increase the strain on the lower back and pelvic
Looking good
Making the most of the pregiiar..cy “bloom”
Whether you are ecstatic about your body shape, or feeling like a beached whale, spending time pampering yourself will help you enjoy the new you. *Your hair may feel thicker and glossier o:- become more unmanageable. TYeat yourself to a new haircut to make the most of your pregnancy hair.
* Book yourself in for a massage to relax and chill out. Find a masseur experienced in dealing with pregnant women.
* If you’re feeling low about your size, splash out on some new maternity clothes, nowadays available in fabulous styles.
joints, oints, giving rise to aches and pains in those areas However, it’s alright once in a while to wear high heels, for example at a party, but it might be wise to take flat shoes to change into for walking home.
What shall I do about my pierced belly button?
If you are pregnant and your navel is pierced, your midwife will probably recommend that you remove any metal jewellery from your navel for the duration of your pregnancy Some women are happy with this advice, but a lot of women do not want to risk letting their piercing heal up, and then having to have it re-pierced after their baby is born, so they try to wear jewellery in their navel through their pregnancy
You can use something called a”pregnancy retainer” Due to the popularity of body piercing, these have been manufactured to help pregnant women maintain their piercing as their body shape changes. They are made up of a soft, flexible substance called PTFE (polytetrafluoroethylene) in the shape of a ”banana” bar that has two acrylic screw-on end balls. There is a wide range of sizes and styles for women to choose from. As a general rule, you should choose a retainer that is at least 4mm longer than the size of the jewellery you are currently wearing, although, as you can imagine, every tummy is different and will obviously change in size as your pregnancy progresses The important factor is that your pregnancy retainer should not pinch into your skin at any time - if you feel your retainer is causing you discomfort, then buy a larger size.
I don’t have much to spend on maternity clothes, any ideas?
Lots of women are faced with this predicament when they become pregnant, but you don’t need to spend a lot of money Most women’s clothes shops now stock selections of maternity wear at very reasonable prices. Invest in a couple of pairs of trousers or skirts that you will be able to adapt as your pregnancy progresses and then mix and match colours and styles with a few tops. The tops don’t have to be maternity wear - you could just buy ones a couple of sizes up from your normal size.
You could look in charity shops too, or loan maternity clothes from friends and family, as women wear maternity clothing for such a short period that it is often in good condition. Ebay is a good place to pick up a bargain, and local NCT (National Childbirth Trust) sales have plenty of items in excellent condition. Lastly, don’t forget your partner’s tops and jeans, which may be the perfect fit!
I’m 20 weeks’ pregnant and have noticed that I get short of breath very easily. Is this normal?
When you’re pregnant, your lungs have to work much harder to meet your body’s increased oxygen needs. To help you take in more air, your ribs flare out and your lung capacity increases dramatically This can make you feel breathless, particularly from mid-pregnancy onwards. In the last three months, most women find they get breathless even during mild exertion, which happens as the expanding uterus pushes up against the lungs. However, being breathless can also be a sign of anaemia, which may need to be treated (see below). Your breathing may start to get easier when your baby engages - moves down into your pelvis ready to be born.
My midwife has told me I’m anaemic. Can I improve my iron levels through my diet?
All pregnant women should be offered screening for anaemia, which is done early in pregnancy (at the first appointment), and again at 28 weeks. Generally,an iron-rich diet is advised in pregnancy and this
is enough to prevent or improve anaemia. Eat plenty of lean red meat, beans, dried fruits, dark green vegetables, fortified cereals, and bread Try including a vitamin C-enriched food or drink in your diet, as vitamin C helps the body to absorb iron more efficiently. Vegetarians need to eat plenty of eggs, pulses, beans and nuts to boost iron supplies. Iron tablets may be recommended depending on how low your iron levels have become.
I have developed a dark vertical line down the middle of my tummy. What is this?
A brown line down the centre of your stomach is known as the linea nigra This occurs due to changes in skin pigmentation, which are extremely common in pregnancy, affecting 90 per cent of all women in some way or another, and is often more noticeable if you are darker sl6nned. As well as the line on your tummy, you may also notice a darkening of the skin around your nipples and a darkening of freckles, moles, or birthmarks. A few women may also experience brown patches on their face called chloasma or ”pregnancy mask” (see p.105), These changes are caused by the extra amounts of the hormone oestrogen in pregnancy, which affects the melanin-producing cells of the skin - the cells that produce the pigment that darkens the skin. These colour changes are normal and will usually fade once the baby is born
I’m 32 weeks and my pelvis
is really aching now - what are the reasons for this?
Mild pelvic discomfort is a common symptom in pregnancy as your ligaments loosen due to the increased levels of the hormones relaxin and progesterone in pregnancy These changes in your pelvis prepare your body for the birth. This feeling is quite normal and happens to most pregnant women. If your pelvis continues to give you discomfort, you can try to adapt your day-to-day living to relieve the symptoms Keep your legs together and swing them
round when getting in and out of a car or bed. Think about your activities for the day and plan your movements ahead so as not to exacerbate any discomfort you have Avoid wearing high-heeled shoes and take a rest whenever the discomfort becomes more noticeable
If your pelvis is more than just uncomfortable, seek medical advice More extreme discomfort that causes chronic pain is a sign that there’s a dysfunction in the pelvic area, which may require treatment and support as pregnancy progresses The most common form of pelvic dysfunction is symphysis pubis dysfunction (SPD), which is caused by the pubic joint not working as it should (see p.82)
I’ve never looked better -why is that?
Hormone levels in early pregnancy can make for a miserable time for many women as they battle against morning sickness, tiredness, and sore breasts. However, at around 12-16 weeks, when pregnancy hormones begin to settle and these symptoms start to subside, many women feel that their skin and hair are in great condition and their energy levels are at a high. This is sometimes called ”blooming” (see p 108) and you may be lucky and find that this continues throughout your pregnancy.
If you are feeling particularly well, you may feel tempted to do too much, but you should exercise some caution as there will still be times when your body needs additional rest and you need to store up energy in preparation for labour and birth.
GETTING COMFORTABLE:
I’m 36 weeks and have noticed that I’m more comfortable and breathing more easily. Why is this?
It sounds like your baby has moved down into the pelvis. The baby’s head is ”engaged” when the widest part of the head has passed down into the pelvis. This means that when the midwife feels your abdomen, less than half of the head can be felt abdominally. Engagement is normally recorded in your antenatal notes in fifths, ranging from 1/5 to 5/5, so if the midwife has written ” 1/5 palpable” your baby’s head is deeply engaged in the pelvis, as this means that 4/5 of your baby is down within the pelvis The timing and significance of engagement depends on several factors. Women expecting their first baby tend to have firmer abdominal muscles, which gently ease the baby down into the pelvis during the last four weeks of pregnancy. This appears to be what your baby has done, and that is why you suddenly feel you can breathe a little easier as your lungs and rib cage are not so squashed A second or third baby may not become engaged until labour starts, as the abdominal muscles tend to be more lax.
What is perineal massage?
Perineal massage is the practice of massaging the perineum, the stretch of skin between the vagina and anus, to make it more flexible in preparation for childbirth. The intention is to prevent tearing of the perineum during birth, and the need for an episiotomy or an assisted (forceps or vacuum extraction) delivery, as the skin in this area may become more stretchy as a result of massage. Clinical trials indicate that perineal and vaginal massage can reduce the seriousness of tears and so some consider it beneficial.
Use a lubricant such as KY jelly cocoa butter, olive oil vitamin E oil, or pure vegetable oil on your thumbs and massage around the perineum Place your thumbs about 3-4cm (1-1%zin) inside your vagina and press downwards and to the sides at the same time. Gently and firmly keep stretching until you feel a slight burning, tingling, or stinging sensation. With your thumbs, hold the pressure steady for about two minutes, or until the area becomes a little numb and you don’t feel the tingling as much. As you keep pressing with your thumbs,slowly and gently massage back and forth over the lower half of your vagina, avoiding the urinary opening, and along your perineum, working the lubricant into the tissues for three to four minutes. This helps stretch the skin in much the same way that the baby’s head will stretch it during birth. Do this massage once or twice a day, starting around the 34th week of pregnancy. After about a week, you should notice an increase in flexibility
I’m 35 weeks and feeling as tired as I did in the first trimester. Is that normal?
Tiredness can cause real problems for women in the first and last trimesters and is often worse for women who are overweight or who have a multiple pregnancy In the early stages, you may feel tired
and lethargic due to hormonal changes, while later in pregnancy tiredness is caused by the extra demands on your body Rest is the best cure, though this may be difficult if you’re working or looking after children.
Boost your energy levels with regular, balanced meals. Late pregnancy is also the time to get your
partner, family, and friends to help out with things like shopping. chores around the house, and cooking
Severe tiredness in the last trimester may indicate that your iron levels are low, so it may be worth getting your iron levels checked
I’ve gone from an A cup to a size D - my husband hopes this will last forever, but it won’t will it?
Many women notice an increase in the size of their breasts in the second trimester and some maintain a bigger size after the birth, especially if they breastfeed. This is due to the effects of oestrogen, which causes fat to be deposited in the breasts. As your breasts enlarge, the veins become noticeable under the skin, the nipples and area around the nipples (areolae) become darker and larger, and bumps may appear on the areolae. Some women get stretch marks on their breasts, but these fade in time After the birth, your breasts may get even bigger when the milk comes in! They do reduce in size once you finish breastfeeding, although the majority of women report a permanent increase of some degree.

Maternity bras
Breast changes are one of the first signs of pregnancy, as from around 3-4 weeks’ gestation there is an increased blood flow, which increases tenderness. Some women notice a change in breast size early in pregnancy. while others may not notice any change until they breastfeed Nevertheless, it’s a good idea to get advice from a shop that stocks maternity bras with staff trained to measure and advise on what size you need. If your current bra fits well, wait until later in pregnancy to get measured when changes in cup size are more likely In the early days of feeding, you may experience some engorgement of your breasts, but don’t panic and send your partner out for a bigger size as this settles in a few days.

 
Weight gain in pregnancy
Monitoring your weight
The recommended weight gain in pregnancy depends on your pre-pregnancy weight. If your BMI was less than 19.8 you should aim for a gain of between 12.5-18kg (28-401b): between 19.8 and 26 you should aim for 11 5-16kg (25-351b); above 26 you should aim for 7-1 lkg (15-251b).
What if I gain too much or too little? There is a link between not putting on enough weight in pregnancy and low birth weight babies. If you gain too much weight, you are more likely to suffer from pre-eclampsia, high blood pressure, diabetes, backache, varicose veins, tiredness, shortness of breath, and to have a large baby
How do I maintain a healthy weight?
Take moderate exercise, eat healthily (see p.50), and follow a weight-reducing diet only under supervision. You need only 200-300 calories more per day so ”eating for two” is not a healthy option.

Keeping active in pregnancy
I regularly go to the gym. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant -can I still go?
Many forms of exercise are safe during pregnancy Regular exercise keeps you fit and healthy, so if you currently exercise then it’s fine to carry on as before Although you can continue to take part in most activities during the first trimester of your pregnancy, you may need to stop more vigorous exercise as your pregnancy continues Do tell your fitness instructor that you are pregnant, so they can tailor your programme accordingly — pregnancy is not the time to break records or go for personal best! Ideal exercise gets your heart pumping, keeps you supple, manages weight gain, and prepares your muscles for the hard work of labour and delivery without causing undue physical stress for you or your baby.
Benefits of exercise
why you should aim to stay fit in pregnancy
There is no doubt that exercising during pregnancy offers numerous benefits to both mother and baby.
* Regular exercise increases flexibility and suppleness, which will benefit you in labour, * Aerobic exercise, such as swimming, increases stamina, improving blood circulation and preparing you for labour. * Exercise releases endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, helping you to relax and lifting your mood
•    Exercise keeps backache at bay.
•    An exercise regime will help you to recover more quickly after the birth
Being active during your pregnancy can also reduce the physical discomforts of backache, constipation, fatigue, and swelling, as well as improve your mood and even help you to sleep more soundly. The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG) states that weight-bearing exercise in pregnancy can reduce the length of labour and may decrease delivery complications. So continue if you can.
Other forms of exercise recommended in pregnancy include swimming, walking, aquanatal classes, yoga, and pilates, as these are not high impact so are less likely to injure your joints.
What’s the best type of exercise during the third trimester?
Swimming is an excellent form of exercise and can be maintained safely throughout pregnancy
It improves circulation, increases muscle tone and strength, builds endurance, and is favoured in late pregnancy as it makes you feel almost weightless. Many women find aquanatal classes enjoyable
exercising while standing in water is gentle on the joints and helps reduce swelling in the legs, common in late pregnancy Aquanatal classes may be run either by a local midwife or by an exercise teacher trained to teach pregnant women.
Walking is a good form of exercise for this later stage of pregnancy as it keeps you fit without jarring your knees and ankles. Take some water to drink to avoid dehydration Yoga and pilates are good if you can find a registered practitioner experienced in dealing with pregnant women. Yoga teaches breathing and relaxation techniques that can help with the demands of labour and birth. Many pilates exercises are done in a ”hands and knees” position, which is ideal for pregnancy as it takes stress off the back and pelvis and, towards the end of pregnancy, can help to position your baby ready for delivery.

I’ve had a previous miscarriage - should I avoid all kinds of exercise?
Many doctors feel that it is best to avoid all but the gentlest forms of exercise in the first 12-16 weeks of pregnancy if you have had two or more miscarriages, or have had vaginal bleeding during this pregnancy
I’m not terribly fit, but would like to start an exercise regime - any advice?
If you are unused to exercise, then moderate activities, such as walking and swimming, would probably be best for you and beneficial for your baby, whereas starting a new competitive sport or vigorous exercise programme would not be ideal Your body is already undergoing huge changes with your heart, lungs, kidneys, and virtually every other major body organ beginning to work much harder. Also, the pregnancy hormones progesterone and relaxin are softening the muscles and ligaments, so soft tissue injuries, back injuries, and abdominal strain become more likely, especially if you haven’t exercised much before. Contact sports, vigorous team sports, and activities like diving and gymnastics carry the further risk of direct injury to your abdomen and uterus - especially as your uterus grows and rises out of your pelvis.
Is it safe to go jogging when you’re pregnant?
Exercise is recommended in pregnancy to improve your circulation and energy levels, boost the immune system, and increase your stamina for labour. Although low-impact activities, such as walking, swimming, and gentle toning and stretching, are ideal, if you are used to jogging and your pregnancy is straightforward, it is fine to continue in pregnancy. However, it is not advisable to take up jogging for the first time now, particularly as there is a risk of falling and hurting your abdomen, and you should avoid jogging if you have a high-risk or multiple pregnancy Other sports and exercises to avoid include gymnastics, horse riding, skiing, and squash.

When should I start doing pelvic floor exercises?
Pelvic floor exercises (see above) can be started at any stage of your pregnancy, but the earlier you start them the better These exercises strengthen the pelvic floor, which is the network of muscles that support the bladder, womb, and bowel. Strengthening these muscles helps to reduce the risk of leaking urine while coughing or sneezing, known as stress incontinence It is important that you know how to do these exercises and practise them regularly throughout your pregnancy
As well as practising the exercises shown above, another way to exercise your pelvic floor muscles is by inserting a finger into your vagina and tightening the muscles around it.

I’m very desk-bound in my job - is it dangerous to sit for long periods of time?
During pregnancy, your circulation slows down and if you sit for long periods of time with the lower leg vertical, it can make it hard for blood to travel upwards. Although this may increase the risk of a blood clot, known as deep vein thrombosis (DVT), sitting for long periods in itself is unlikely to cause a clot Your degree of risk also depends on your level of activity at other times. Exercise is the best way to minimize the risk of a blood clot and taking a brisk daily walk is ideal as it exercises your legs. There are also simple measures you can take while at work to reduce the risk of developing a clot. Try ankle movements every hour, get up and walk around every 3-4 hours, take the stairs rather than the lift, and walk over to see a colleague rather than email.
If you are especially concerned, talk to your midwife or doctor about wearing special stockings that are designed to improve circulation However, it is important that you get the right size, as stockings that are too tight can add to the problem.

I’ve been getting lower back pain - could it be due to bad posture? I’m eight months pregnant.
In a recent review of current research, more than two thirds of pregnant women reported back pain. This pain increased with advancing pregnancy interfering with work, daily activities, and sleep. Lower back pain is caused by the forward pull of the growing abdomen, so as your baby increases in size and gestation, the strain on your back is greater So although bad posture may not be the sole cause adopting a good posture is important to reduce the strain Gentle exercise also helps to reduce the pain, and water aerobics is particularly beneficial.
Some women use a Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation (TENS) machine in late pregnancy (see p.175), which helps to block the pain nerve impulses to the brain and stimulates the release of natural painkillers called endorphins. Other tips for lower back pain include a warm hand massage using a base oil a warm deep bath, and using cushions to support you when relaxing and in bed
I’m seven months’ pregnant now and quite big. Should I adapt my swimming style?
You may find that as you get very large towards the end of pregnancy, you need to alternate your swimming style to find the one that is most comfortable for you. Apart from this, a low-impact activity like swimming is ideal as the water provides resistance, there is a low risk of injury and the mass of water relieves pressure on the abdomen and helps to ease lower back pain.
My midwife is running aquanatal classes at our local pool - are they safe?
Yes, low-impact activities such as aquanatal classes are fine in pregnancy. You are fortunate to have this facility as not all areas are able to provide classes. The trainer or midwife conducting the sessions
should be able to advise you about the range of movement recommended to minimize any risk.

We love going clubbing; will the loud music be OK for my baby?
There is evidence to suggest that babies can hear
in the womb from about 16-20 weeks. However, your baby is protected by the amniotic fluid surrounding him, so most noises do not affect him. The ears of a fetus are often full of a protective greasy coating produced by the skin, known as vernix, so external loud noises would be muffled by the time they reach your baby. Your baby is most likely to respond to your reaction to loud music rather than the music itself
There is a study that suggests that constant or regular exposure to noise can increase the risk of a small-for-dates baby, meaning your baby’s growth is smaller than expected for his gestation. However, it is more likely that it is the environment and its effect on the mother that contributes to the baby’s weight rather than the actual noise. Too much clubbing may mean you are getting too little rest and you may be drinking more alcohol than you should. You should
probably consider whether you are getting enough quality rest and ensure that you are reducing or stopping your alcohol intake, as this is more harmful to your baby than loud music.
We like walking, but should I cut down on the number of miles now that I’m pregnant?
Walking is ideal in pregnancy as it is low-impact exercise and can be maintained throughout your pregnancy If you plan to continue lengthy walks and like to walk briskly, try combining this with a slower, more leisurely pace. It’s important to control your body temperature so that you don’t overheat and feel uncomfortable To do this, drink plenty of water to avoid dehydration and wear layers that you can take on and off as required. As your tummy grows, you may find hill climbing causes physical instability, as may trekking over uneven terrain, so stick to more level paths. If you find yourself getting breathless, take frequent breaks.

Antenatal yoga
Practising yoga in pregnancy is hugely beneficial. As well as strengthening and toning muscles, which will help you in labour and birth, yoga aims to bring about a greater awareness of your breathing rhythms, providing a perfect relaxation tool in pregnancy and preparing you to breathe through the contractions. Find an accredited teacher experienced in teaching pregnant women or attend an antenatal class.

Exercise in late pregnancy
adapting your routine to suit your changing needs
Towards the end of pregnancy, you will inevitably slow down, but you may not want to stop altogether! There are sensible ways to modify your exercise regime to ensure you stay safe and fit. * In later pregnancy, avoid exercises that involve sudden movement, such as tennis, as your balance is less steady now. * Swimming is perfect in late pregnancy and aids relaxation.You may need to modify your stroke and enjoy more floating. * Reduce the intensity and length of your workout to avoid exhaustion.

Pelvic floor exercises Strengthening the muscles that support pelvic organs
Learning how to exercise your pelvic floor muscles is vital in pregnancy to help you avoid stress incontinence (leaking urine). This discreet exercise can be practised any time. Pelvic floor exercises involve squeezing your buttocks in and pulling in your tummy muscles, then holding for 5 seconds and releasing. Repeat this 5-6 times several times a day. You could imagine your pelvic floor going up like a lift, contracting your muscles a little more at each floor.

Safe exercise
Taking care in pregancy
Although exercise is highly recommended during pregnancy, this is a time when you may have to moderate your usual programme, especially as you get bigger, and avoid types of exercise or situations that may put you or your baby at risk.
What safety precautions should I take? If you are taking up exercise during pregnancy, be sensible about which type of exercise you choose. Avoid any type of exercise that is too strenuous and opt for low-impact activities, such as walking and swimming. Always do warm-up stretches before exercising and build up your stamina and fitness gradually. This is especially important as hormones in pregnancy relax joints and ligaments
in preparation for labour (see opposite), which means that you are more susceptible to injury. Avoid exercising in very hot conditions as this may be harmful to the baby; in hot months, exercise early in the morning or indoors Also, avoid exercising near traffic as you are more likely to be affected by pollution while exercising. Your centre of gravity changes in pregnancy, so avoid high-impact, fast-moving sports, such as tennis.
Should I stop exercising at any time?You should stop exercising straight away if you feel dizzy or short of breath; if you feel that you are overheating; if you are experiencing pain in your back or pelvis; or if you feel exhausted.