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One or two breasts
As indicated above, breastfeeding is a matter of supply and demand reverse thyroxine . The more often you breastfeed the baby, the better lactation is stimulated side effects of diovan hct . In principle, it is therefore advisable for the baby to drink from both breasts during every feed diflucan online dream pharmaceutical . It is important that at least one of the breasts is completely emptied so that the baby gets some of the more fatty milk which is produced after the colostrum and is more nourishing lithium basic information . If the baby appears to be hungry fairly soon after the previous feed, start with the emptiest breast, and then go back to the full breast as the first one at the normal feeding time medil journals on pregnancy and zoloft .
Night feeds
The baby often develops an awareness of night and day for the first time at about six weeks, and the gap between the night feeds can be gradually increased temp soma memory foam mattress topper .
Parents can work towards this by feeding the baby briefly and in a ‘businesslike manner’ at night, and by keeping the light and sound low, that is, by feeding in a very different atmosphere from the daytime endep type . When the baby shows that it can sleep for five or six hours at a time, but still wakes up too early, for example, at 5 o’clock instead of 7 o’clock, there are several ways to help it take the last step in the right direction:
— only change the baby’s nappy and then place him back in the cot-,
— give a bottle with approximately 100 ml (3′/2 fl oz) of fennel or camomile tea (see the recipes on p avodart aloe .1 10) public chapter 279 actos of 2003 . The baby is satisfied because he has had something, but will wake up for the next feed within two hours, so that his routine is maintained online mexico pharmacy ultram .
— move the cot from the parents’ bedroom to another room; very often, parents who have become used to night feeds will prevent the baby from sleeping because they are tossing and turning flomax avadart .
It is certainly advisable to give the first morning feed at a set time, or to work towards this, even if the night feed changes, for example, from 3 o’clock in the morning to 5 o’clock in the morning cialis user reviews . In this way, a routine is maintained side effects of fexofenadine hydrochloride .
Crying with hunger
As you get to know your baby, you will also start to recognise why he is crying (see also p rockstar caffeine content .48) lanzoprazol vs esomeprazole . Crying with hunger is one reason to forget about the pattern of feeding and to feed the baby more often, particularly when this happens several times causes of low testosterone inmen . Usually, by feeding the baby quite often it takes one or two days to establish a new pattern, which will be enough for the amount of milk to adapt to the baby’s needs lovastatin effects on uric acid . Then it is possible to return to the first feeding pattern off label use of abilify .
Bowel movements
A baby’s stools are black and sticky for the first few days (meconium) viagra solid food . Then the stools of breastfed babies usually acquire a creamy yellow, sometimes green consistency coumadin glaucoma . A baby may have from seven dirty nappies a day to just one a week zithromax one day shipping . Different colours and amounts can also be quite normal accutane oily skin returned . There may also be quite a difference in the thickness of the stools, but in babies who are breastfed they are usually thinner, and never really very thick mylan and estrace . It is quite normal for a baby to be completely covered with excrement when it has pushed hard for a while suggested substitutes for zelnorm . It can only really be characterised as diarrhea when it is very watery with just a few solid bits, and occurs more than six times a day prednisone what is . If a baby only moves its bowels once or a few times a week, it may become a problem and have a negative influence on the drinking pattern, while the stools that are produced are rarely very thick is risperdal effective . In this case, mildly laxative foods may help testosterone cyp 200mg ml water . The mother could eat some dried prunes, or drink some orange juice drug interaction and levonorgestrel and topamax . If this does not help, or if the orange juice causes cramps or gives the baby a red bottom, give the baby some of the water in which the prunes were soaked, and discuss the problem at the baby clinic energizer lithium recharger .
Weighing the baby
In the UK, it is recommended that babies are weighed at birth, at two weeks and at six weeks cardizem xt . The birth weight should be regained within two or at most three weeks doxycycline for sale . If a good feeding pattern is established in the following period, the baby should
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have at least six very wet nappies per day, and if he is happy, then it is no longer necessary to weigh him at home does insurance cover cialis . If you use disposable nappies it is difficult to assess how wet they are — particularly when you have your first child low dose naltrexone drink alcohol . If you have any doubts about whether the amount of food that the baby is receiving is sufficient, don’t look only at whether or not the baby is happy but also use the scales how long clomid can be used . There are babies who remain quiet even if they are hungry cold medicine albuterol . Therefore we advise weighing the baby naked twice a week until the first visit to the baby clinic drug voltaren .
Yellow skin
Many babies have a slightly yellow colour in the first few days after they are born because of the increased bilirubin content of the body buy soma from mexico onli . This usually disappears without any problems within a few days aciphex canada . If the baby is very yellow and seems sleepy and difficult to wake up, it is important to make sure he comes into contact with daylight, for example, by placing the cot by a (closed) window with the hood back propranolol sleep . In addition, it is important for the child to drink a lot naltrexone use . Feed him at least eight times a day, even when this may be difficult because the baby is sleepy wellbutrin xl 30 mg . It is not advisable to supplement the feed with water, tea or glucose water zyrtec advertisements . Breastfeeding, particularly the first feed, has a laxative effect, so that the meconium containing the bilirubin is soon removed from the intestines lipitor alternaive drug .
The mother’s diet
Altogether drink approximately one litre more per day than you usually do; for example, herbal teas, fruit juice, milk and milk products and tea which stimulates lactation medical acyclovir . Approximately 500ml (half quart) of dairy products per day is sufficient generic sample viagra .
If possible, eat foods which have not been sprayed, and have been thoroughly cooked; for example, easily digestible cereals, bread, sufficient dairy products, cheese or meat, nuts (almonds) norvasc nebenwirkungen . For the first six weeks, avoid vegetables which cause wind or are difficult to digest (brassicas and leeks), spicy meals and citrus fruits minimum dose of enalapril for dogs . After this, you can gradually see whether the baby will tolerate these foods indirectly through the mother’s milk restless leg syndrome and ibuprofen . If the baby suffers from cramp, wind or posseting, it is also possible to see whether coarse, indigestible muesli, wholemeal bread or rye bread, which are difficult to digest, or raw vegetables and whole grains of wheat, rye or barley, should be removed from the diet fora while pravachol foradil diflucan .
Avoid alcohol and nicotine (inhibits breastfeeding), as well as icy and/or carbonated drinks soma strength . Do not drink a lot of coffee or black tea does prilosec cause anemia . Always consult the doctor if you are taking medication purchase aleve at discount .
Some practical tips
— If you have the impression that the baby does not have a good sucking technique or is too tired to drink, ask your midwife or health visi-
tor for advice wholesale lithium aa batteries . For these questions, members of the National Childbirth Trust or the La Leche League, or a lactation expert, can give good advice; see the Useful Organizations on p proscar side effects . 119 clomipramine premature ejaculation side effects .
— If you would like to give the baby his last feed just before you go to bed yourself, and it is difficult to wake him up, try to feed him while he is still asleep what’s better sulcrafate or carafate . Some babies can drink while they are asleep downs syndrome and cancer and celebrex .
— Only use water to wash your nipples, not soap zithromax and pneumonia .
— Make sure that you are dressed warmly and that your arms are covered, when you are feeding prophalytic indocin in prematures . This helps to prevent mastitis positive reviews on lexapro .
— If you are troubled by constipation, there is usually no objection to eating some soaked dried prunes contraindications for zocor . If this does not help, and you are really drinking enough (2 litres / quarts or more per day), ask the doctor for advice drug fluoxetine .
— During the time that you are breastfeeding, try not to lose too much C~
weiaht terbutaline brain damage law firm . All the harmful sub- stances that we ingest with our food are stored in the form of fat lipitor and red yeast rice . If a lot of fat is broken down — because you are slimming — these substances will find their way directly into the milk prozac and menstrual disturbances .
— If you plan to go back to work, it is best to discuss this at the baby clinic in good time, so you can ask for advice, for example, about expressing milk nexium and prevacid which is better . It is quite an art to learn how to do this drug olmesartan . In addition, the baby will have to learn to accept a bottle allergic reaction mobic capsules . From six weeks, give him a bottle of expressed milk once every one or two days, so that the baby is really used to the bottle by the time you start work endometriosis low testosterone women .
Problems with breastfeeding
Cracked nipples
Cracked nipples are usually the result of breastfeeding incorrectly, or a poor sucking technique as a result of thrush, and sometimes as a result of’ the mother’s sensitive skin seroquel treatment . Thrush in particular is an increasingly common cause, which is not always recognised (see ‘white spots’ p lexapro and bladder .99) order flagyl without a prescription . Ask your health professional for help in good time, rather than endlessly trying to solve the matter yourself with nipple pads etc 2.5 benzoyl peroxide kit .
It is a good idea to feed the baby often and for short periods sertraline for sale . Whatever you do, do not postpone feeding the baby because it hurts; in fact, a baby does not suck so hard if the breast is less full nephrocaps renagel .
After feeding the baby, rub the last drops of milk over the nipples with clean hands, as this can have a healing effect (do not do this if the baby has thrush) nb-2lh lithium . Make sure that the nipples are thoroughly dry, possibly by drying them with a hair dryer, and if necessary, wear a small metal sieve (without a handle) in your bra so that air can get to the nipples asacol drug .
In addition, there is a whole series of ointments and tinctures such as Weleda calendula ointment, or mecurialis ointment or tincture albuterol and hes . The
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advantage of tinctures is that the nipples do not become soft and the air can get to them phenergan prolactin increase . An ointment can be helpful for dry nipples, provided it is applied thinly after feeding the baby what kind of vagina infection clindamycin . Discuss this with your health professional clomid hot flashes .
Mastitis
If you suffer flu-like symptoms, have a fever and feeding the baby hUrtS, you are probably suffering from incipient mastitis nokia lithium battery . You can get mastitis if you are extremely tired, in combination with catching cold, as a result of cracked nipples, if the breast is not properly emptied, and also when you reduce the number of feeds, for example, when the night feed comes to an end allegra cadence horse feed .
It is never possible to completely empty the breast — you can always express some more milk — but it is not good if dried milk remains on the nipples after the feed mobic anti-inflammatory generic . You must certainly go on feeding following the same pattern as before, or even slightly more often anhydrous thyroxine . If possible, start with the painful breast depakote side effects bi polar . However, if this is really too painful or if the milk does not come through, start with the healthy breast until the milk comes through, and then change to the painful breast compazine toxicity .
Other remedies are:
— Before feeding, direct a hot shower at the breast or place something hot on it while you are feeding, so that milk flows more easily uses for nexium . — After every feed place a compress of curds on the painful spot for about thirty minutes grease lithium nlgi 1 synthetic . To do this, spread some curds at room temperature on a piece of muslin or thin handkerchief, and fold over the material zyrtec drug tests .
— Instead of using a curd compress, you can also place some slightly bruised cabbage leaves (green or white cabbage) on the painful spot omeprazole ku 118 . Leave the leaves in position for a number of hours by placing them inside your bra orthotrycyclen and prednisone .
— Ring the doctor if your fever has not gone down after one day zantac and anesthesia . Mastitis can be easily treated with anthroposophical medicines without influencing milk production and without any harmful effects for the baby tamoxifen and weight .
Too little milk
If the breasts do not feel really full, or if they produce a rather glassy, bluish milk rather than white milk, this does not mean that breastfeeding is inadequate cheep kamagra . The composition of the mi lk changes over the months, and in principle, the quality is always good what is in zantac . After a while, the pressure in the breasts disappears once a good balance has been achieved between supply and demand information on lipitor . If the quantity of milk is not enough, you will see this more accurately from the baby’s crying, the number of wet nappies per day and/or the baby’s increase in weight chemical name and penicillin . (See also p cetirizine and sulfides .57 under Weighing the baby) prescription drugs sumatriptan .
The causes of not having enough milk can be incorrect breastfeeding or sucking technique, stress in the
mother, too much restlessness when feeding, not giving enough feeds, giving only one breast every feed, the mother not drinking enough and overtiredness professional cialis .
What can be done? Feed the baby more often, always give him both breasts information on prescription celebrex . Make sure you rest enough yourself, and also eat enough strattera adderall . Do not start bottle-feeding too quickly, because the more often and the more powerfully the baby sucks, the better the breastfeeding will be metoprolol 100 mg .
Remedies which help the milk to flow include special teas, or Weleda’s Species lactagogae (tea), oil to rub on the breasts (available on prescription from the doctor), sloe celebrex and hyaluronic acid .juice or elixir and almonds celebrex 20 mg . Avoid parsley, sage and lemons as they reduce the flow of milk what is amitriptyline used for .
In some cases, none of this will help, for example, in a busy family with lots of children paxil and vitamin b-complex . In this case, accepting the fact and introducing bottle-feeding will relax everyone singulair doesn’t work .
Too much milk
If there is always pressure on the breasts there is a danger of mastitis, or if the baby cannot cope with the supply of milk, drink slightly less and try to change to giving one breast every feed sustained release prednisolone tablet . If there is a lot of pressure, use cabbage leaves in the way described for mastitis ic carisoprodol . If this does not help, ask the nurse for advice buy viagra in new zealand .
Bottle-feeding
The advice given below applies for babies who are completely bottle fed fentanyl and quetiapine . If you breastfeed as well as giving the bottle, you can see how much milk the baby is drinking from the breast, for example, by weighing the baby once a week, before and after a number of feeds zetia studies . Adapt the amount given in the bottle accordingly what are testosterone metabolites .
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Amount
During the first three months, the average requirement per day is 150 to 175 nil per kg of body weight (about 21/2 oz per lb) tacrolimus topical . In other words, for a
baby weighing 4 kg, this amounts to 600 to 700 ml per day (20-24 fl oz) penicillin for animals . Obviously this quantity is gradually built up, starting on the first day after birth with six to seven times 10 to 15 ml (2-3 tsp), then six to seven times 20 to 30 ml (4-6 tsp) on the second day, and so on hidrocloruro de bupropion .
If you make use of formula milk, follow the instructions on the packaging soma troll .
A recipe for bottle-feeding based on almond paste and cow’s milk is given below (see box below) foreign pharmacy viagra . If you change from formula milk to bottles you have prepared yourself, this must be done gradually, for exam-pie, by replacing one bottle per day actigall veterinary .
Bottle-feeding based on almond paste for 0-3 months
Ingredients for 100 nil (or for 8fl oz) bottle-feeding: 2 parts water, (65-70 nil, 5-51/2 fl oz)
1 pan full-fat cow’s milk (30-35 nil, 2′/2-3 fl oz) 4 g (2 tsp) white almond paste
6 g (1 tbsp) lactose
Boil the water lansoprazole solutabs and clooged feeding tubes . Remove the pan from the hob taking levothyroxine before bed . Whisk the almond paste and lactose into the water so that the ingredients are thoroughly dissolved cyclosporine symptoms . Stir in the milk and pour everything through a tea strainer so that the bottle teat will not be obstructed by any lumps can you get high on prozac .
The full amount for the day can be prepared at the same time ranitidine erectile . Immediately after preparing the bottles, cool them down under cold running water and keep them carefully sealed in the fridge transition effexor to cymbalta . Before feeding the baby, bring the desired quantity up to body temperature by heating the bottle in a pan of hot water or in a bottle warmer amiodarone versus ablation .
NB: This bottle-feeding is only adequate if fruit and vegetables are given from two months of age is there asprin in ibepropin .
TIP: It is useful to weigh a spoonful of lactose or almond paste once, so that you can then use that particular spoon to measure the quantities in future migraine atenolol tapering .
The recipe for this type of bottle-feeding does not change for the next three months, although the quantity has to be adapted regularly (see Feeding Table, p effexor with tranzene .114) side effects of crixivan . From about six weeks the night feed can be dropped, and five feeds should be sufficient zyrtec infant .
Hygiene
For the first six months, it is particularly important to ensure hygiene as carefully as possible when cleaning the bottles and preparing the bottle feeds requip patirnts review .
Immediately after use, rinse out the bottles with water fluconazole drug interactions . Boil the bottles once every two to three days in boiling water for ten minutes abbott laboratories life cycle leader gengraf . Also rinse the teat after every feed with hot water, and boil them every two or three days for three minutes ratiopharm salbutamol hfa . Always keep the teats in a sealed jam jar imipramine and migraines . Replace the bottle teats every six weeks chlorthalidone sexual side effects .
Bowel movements
In principle, a baby who is bottle fed should move his bowels every day, in contrast with a child who is breastfed zyprexa 50 mg . If he does not move his bowels as often as this, real problems can arise with constipation (see also p effects of bulemia with bupropion sr .101) Discuss this at the baby clinic in good time so that feeding can be adapted prilosec diarrhea colitis .
Solids with bottle-feeding
If the baby is not breastfed at all, but is fed with bottles prepared with almond paste, start with carrot juice, possibly mixed with apple juice, at about two months of age reglan and wbc . Fresh juice is easy to make yourself, by grating a carrot or apple very finely and expressing the juice with the rounded side of a spoon extraction caffeine green tea . You can also use a piece of muslin or clean handkerchief and place the grated carrot or apple on this taking yasmin and abilify together . Make it into a little bag and press out the juice drug screening tramadol .
Start with a few teaspoons, possibly diluted with water, and give this before the second or third bottle prozac mania . At a later stage, this can be increased to a maximum of two dessertspoonfuls per day urinary tract infection providium and bactrim . Depending on the season, it is then possible to add juice made from blackcurrants, rose hips or tangerines ginkgo biloba and prozac . The juice of blueberries has a constipating effect cymbalta who should not take it .
Always makes sure that the solids are at body temperature ranitidine rantidine .
Vaccinations
Discuss the subject of inoculations during one of your first visits to the baby clinic so that you have time to form an opinion (see also p enrica soma .87ff) can you split cialis in half .
Practical Advice for
Three to Six Months
Psychomotor development
During this stage, learning to use the arms, hands and trunk area priority lithium ion aircraft batteries .
From about four months the baby learns to use her hands, lying on her back — first just one hand, and then both hands at the same time what company makes the drug cymbalta . The child learns to move objects from one hand to the other lipitor causes shoulder damage . She will put everything she takes hold of into her mouth and explore it with great joy cipro current medical warnings . The child learns that every object feels or tastes different, that there are different shapes, sizes and weights, and that some toys are warm while others are cold ultram er 300mg .
At about six months the child learns to raise herself up to her navel
when she is lying on her stomach medication relafen . The head is stable, and in this position she can look around at the world until she accidentally rolls over 90 tramadol pills cheapest .
Supported by her father’s or mother’s arm, the child can sit up briefly, but is still much too small to be put in a baby chair or any other type of chair zydus pharm metformin . During this stage, she learns to respond to the environment in a clear and focused way, and demonstrates this contact by gurgling contentedly starting cymbalta temporary morning drowsiness .
Sleeping and waking
A day and night routine has usually been established by now, as the night feed stops chlamydia treatment with tetracycline . By the end of these months when the late feed has also been dropped, the baby will sleep through the night claritin d vs zyrtec d .
The rest of the sleeping and waking routine is still entirely related to the pattern of feeding cipro wide spectrum antibiotic . The baby will always sleep for two or three hours between feeds oxcarbazepine pakistan . The night starts after the 7 o’clock feed in the evening,
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and may be briefly interrupted for the late feed, as long as this remains necessary methyl prednisone without a prescription .
Care
The playpen
From four months it advisable to place the playpen in the living room prednisone high white count . A playpen is a safe environment with firm boundaries for the child, and they can be contained with in their own area 4 hydroxy diclofenac . Experiencing a boundary works psychologically by creating a shelter, which influences physical development in a positive way (See also p what does viagra pill look like .3 1) hydroxyzine popped .
Dribbling
From the age of three months, many babies start to dribble, and by five months may dribble a lot tadalafil cipla pharmacy . This dribbling does not always indicate that they are teething, but is usually a sign of developing salivary glands citalopram withdrawa . A bib will keep the baby’s top dry and prevent the child from cooling down cialis separate bath tubs .
Toys and playing
Now that the baby can hold something in her hand, a rattle, a knitted woollen ball with a bell inside her, or a cuddly toy are suitable toys low price evista .
The cuddly toy does not have to be any more than a square piece of cloth tied together glyburide and sex . The baby explores everything with her mouth to find out about the world, bit by bit tizanidine hcl 4mg . In this way, she learns where her own body ends and the world begins provera clomid and tanning .
Itsy bitsy spider’ is a favourite finger game about soma .
Safety
The most common accidents during this period are the same as those during the period between birth and three months (see p prednisone is .54) cialis for hape .
However, we would like to mention a few further points for attention: during this period, the baby learns to take hold of things, and it is therefore even more important to be careful with loose covers over the cot, pieces of cord and small objects in the cot, on the dressing table or in the playpen cipro and fetal deformities . The playpen must be safe lawyer for boniva case evaluation . Take care to check the hinges viagra patent expires .
Feeding
The pattern of feeding
In most cases, a clear feeding pattern has become established by the age of three months try levitra sample pack . The usual feeding times are 7 and 1 I o’ clock in the morning, 3 o’ clock in the afternoon, and 7 and I I o’ clock in the evening connecticut generic meltabs viagra . By the end of this stage, the I I o’clock feed in the evening is usually dropped zantac muscle .
Breastfeeding
By the age of three months, the baby may no longer breastfeed quite as well gallbladder removal quit alcohol caffeine . This is related to her growing interest in everything around her depot provera . It is typical for the baby to drink for a little bit, and then look at the mother with the breast still half in her mouth, laughing radiantly, then taking another sip, laughing again, and so on zetia tab 10mg .
It helps if the mother does not give up and does not become irritated or angry amoxicillin 875 prescribed . If possible, feed the baby in a quiet place with as few distractions as possible, and while the baby is feeding, do not respond to her beaming attempts to make contact pictures of lamictal rash .
Weaning
In the UK, health visitors advise that solids are given from six months if possible, and that babies are breast-fed on demand red yeast lovastatin quantity lovastatin equivalents .
To teach a baby to learn to eat from a spoon, it is useful to start
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with a small flat spoon, and to offer it only when the baby opens her mouth identification of carbamazepine in water . Place the spoon horizontally in the mouth and then remove it horizontally without emptying it against the upper lip amoxicillin and diet pills interaction . This means that the baby will be more inclined to empty the spoon herself and swallow, rather than slurping and sucking fluconazole ear infections . In the beginning she may well choke on the food a little oxybutynin pill . As the food is in a Soft pureed form, there is no danger of really choking kamagra india . After coughing a bit, most babies will be prepared to take further spoonfuls ibuprofen harmful to dogs .
As soon as you start giving solids, the colour and smell of the stools will change omeprazole rebates . Vegetables will particularly change the colour cr123a lithium batteries .
Start with fruit: Raw, pureed apple or pear, and then add some juice from a sweet orange, a little bit of banana, or depending on the season, some blackcurrant or blueberry juice apri seiu stern . If the baby finds it difficult to digest, start with cooked apple for the first two weeks caffeine cafe restaurant . If this does not lead to any problems with breastfeeding, the food can be given before the third or fourth feed finasteride result . However, if the baby no longer wants to drink from the breast or drinks significantly less after this supplement, give the food after breastfeeding prozac trazadone sleep .
Gradually increase the quantity from two teaspoonfuls to two dessertspoonfuls paroxetine pharmacy .

The Baby Clinic
When a mother is expecting a child, this is the beginning of an exciting period; a time of ‘expectation,’ followed by the birth and the baby’s first year. It is a special event every time, but particularly with a first child. Parenthood is `born’ along with the child, bringing all sorts of new tasks and experiences with it.
Baby clinics are located at health centres in virtually every town, and have the important task of monitoring the children and helping parents to look after their young children. In addition to ordinary baby clinics, there are also some clinics based on the approach used in anthroposophical medicine. In general, these are linked to anthroposophical medical practices.
All the work of these clinics is concerned with providing preventative care for children from birth to the age of four or five years. In general, this means providing help and support for parents to promote their child’s health.
The doctor and nursing staff at the clinic devote their attention to the physical and psychological development of your child. They ask questions and examine the child to check for certain disorders: for example, growth or psychomotor disorders; disorders or malfunctions of the cardiovascular system, lungs, kidneys and reproductive organs; ear, nose and throat disorders-, disorders of the abdomen, arms and legs; disorders of the teeth, and visual and hearing disorders.
At anthroposophical baby clinics, the constitutional characteristics of the child are also examined, and the personal characteristics and features, which might indicate a particular approach for medical and/or educational measures, are considered. After all, no child develops in accordance with the statistical norm. It is only by examining the individual developmental opportunities and problems of a child that it is possible to give appropriate advice. This is not so much a matter of preventing disorders, but of helping to ensure that the various developmental stages of the child follow each other in an appropriate way.
In addition, the baby clinic is an important place for parents to ask questions, as advice is offered on different subjects, including feeding and growth, upbringing and looking after the baby, physical and psychological development and the issue of inoculations.

The advice on children from birth to one year which you will find in this book is in line with the care provided by anthroposophical baby clinics, and may differ from the advice given by ordinary clinics, and is related to the views held by the doctor and nursing staff regarding the developing child. In Chapter 2 of this book you will find the viewpoints which form the background for the practical advice. This may be helpful when you want to make your own decision in a particular situation. However, this book serves to supplement rather than replace the supervision of the baby clinic. Whichever clinic you choose, it is important that you discuss any concerns you have, and express what you want, at the clinic.
We hope that the various subjects discussed will encourage a conscious approach to parenting and be helpful with regard to understanding, and living with, a developing child.

Pregnancy
Dufing pregnancy, the mother-tobe is in a very special condition, both physically and psychologically. There are all sorts of indications of a reduction in her level of consciousness, which may be manifested by drowsiness, diminished powers of concentration, dizziness, light-headedness and a floating sensation. At a physical level, there is a loss of muscular strength and a loss of tension in all the involuntary muscles. For example, the intestines work less effectively, which can result in constipation. There may also be changes in the action of the kidneys, blood pressure and pulse.
In a way, this whole condition resembles sleep. You could say that a pregnant woman floats between a waking and sleeping state and feels dreamier than she did before. Nevertheless, many women feel very well and active at the same time.
Pregnancy can be divided into three terms, each of roughly three months’ duration.
In the first three months, the woman’s organism has to be ‘transformed’ into a pregnant condition, or, as described above, the organism has to achieve a state between waking and sleeping. The fact that this is an intensive change is clear from the fact that the first three months of pregnancy are usually accompanied by nausea, vomiting and tiredness. It is during these months that the egg is fertilized, becomes embedded in the womb and the foetus starts to develop. It is a relatively vulnerable period of pregnancy in which miscarriages are fairly common (10%). See p.102 folic acid.
The second three-month term is usually the easiest. The pregnant woman becomes used to her condition, can do all sorts of things and does not experience much physical discomfort from the foetus. The foetus has become ‘firmly established,’ as is shown by the small number of problems during this period.
During the third stage, the physical manifestation of the child becomes increasingly clear, with a large stomach being the first sign of this. The discomfort which a pregnant woman experiences when bending down, urinating, feeling full after a meal, being unable to move, run, laugh and sit, reveals that the child has a clear physical presence. The foetus now becomes more vulnerable again. There may be bleeding or even a premature birth. At the end of this period, birth is often experienced as a real release.
When the woman has given birth, all the symptoms of the condition between waking and sleeping gradually disappear again. Only if she breastfeeds will this process be slightly postponed.
An overview of pregnancy reveals that the pregnant woman achieves a condition where she ‘makes way’ for the child to come; in which the child establishes a place on the way to birth. In a way, the expectant mother becomes less ‘earthly,’ while the child becomes increasingly ‘earthbound.’ From this perspective it is, therefore, not surprising that expectant mothers experience moments of contact with their unborn child. After all, both are in an ‘interim state;’ a state between the earthly world and the world that the child is coming from.
If we try to approach the woman’s pregnancy in this manner — taking the idea of ‘making way’ seriously — it is clearly understandable that during pregnancy a woman often finds it difficult to tolerate direct
confrontation with the world around her, and even tries to avoid it altogether. ‘Listening’ to her inner self is the best guideline.
It obviously goes without saying that alcohol and smoking should be avoided because they are known to affect the development and growth of the unborn child, and medicines should only be taken after consultation with the doctor. In addition, a natural, healthy and varied diet is clearly important for both mother and child.
To prepare for breastfeeding, it is a good idea to apply Weleda iris jelly to the nipples every day to prevent the skin cracking during breastfeeding. Stretch marks are largely dependant on genetic factors. However, it makes sense to keep the skin, particularly around the stomach and thighs, supple during pregnancy, by rubbing the skin twice daily with Weleda arnica massage oil. If there is a sensitivity to arnica, it is possible to use Weleda calendula massage oil.
The birth
Experiencing the birth of a child is one of the most intimate experiences in life. Feelings of astonishment, joy, anxiety, fear and fulfilment are experienced to extremes during the birth. Obviously these are most intense for the woman who is having the baby, but the family members and obstetric staff attending her fully share in the intensity of feeling.

It starts with the excitement and anticipation of what will happen when the waters break or the first contractions start. Getting everything ready, the support and help of the midwife during contractions, the constant question of how far the process has advanced — these are all part of the active and busy atmosphere of birth. However, sometimes there are also moments of near serenity and tranquillity; an atmosphere of relaxation, trust and complete surrender to what is to come.
The birth takes place in these recurrent and alternating periods of intense activity and intense tranquillity. Everyone attending the birth finds that a unique atmosphere develops as a result of these alternate emotions, which can go on for many hours. It is an incomparable atmosphere, evoking feelings of deep wonder and awe.
The focal point of everything that is going on is the mother-to-be. She is in touch with the deepest natural forces in her body, and is in danger of being overwhelmed by these natural forces, with an intensity which rarely occurs in life. She may also feel that she does not have the strength to give birth on her own, and may be very grateful to accept the instructions of the obstetric staff, so that the sense of impotence can make way for a sense of trust in the successful end of the birth.
When the cervix is fully dilated, the moment arrives when she can
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use all her strength to help the child to be born by pushing it out. Just before this moment, it is quite common for the woman’s consciousness to be almost overwhelmed, and then return quite vivdly with the first push. This stage of pushing the baby out is extremely hard work, even though sometimes it only requires one big contraction.
From the moment that the baby’s head emerges, the atmosphere changes immediately. All attention is focused on the delivery of the rest of the baby, who eventually experiences light, air and gravity for the first time, is placed on its mother’s stomach and swaddled in warm nappies (diapers). If not giving birth at home, you should check with your midwife or consultant to see if it is possible to have a warm cloth to swaddle the baby in. All eyes are on the baby; the noises, movements, eyes and hair. Everyone feels an urge to touch the baby and stroke it.
Then the obstetrician focuses on the last part of the delivery: cutting the umbilical cord and delivering the placenta.
The whole birth is only really complete when the mother has been washed and cleaned up, and is holding the pink, warm, swaddled baby in her arms, and is surrounded by everyone who was present at the birth. The whole spectrum of emotions is experienced, together with a sense of satisfaction, gratitude and respect for the forces that play a role in the birth process.

The birth described above is probably the birth every parent dreams of. And yet, no two births are the same. The life of every person starts with a unique event; the delivery. Some children have a difficult start, for example, if the birth was induced too early, the baby was born prematurely, or if the delivery involved a great deal of medical intervention. In the UK most babies are now born in hospital, but it is possible to discuss your birth plan beforehand with your midwife or consultant.
For parents, the fear about the baby’s health or being overwhelmed by a premature birth can obstruct the feelings of wonder and gratitude described above. Sometimes it may be a while before you can start to love your child in a relaxed way and feel an obvious connection with it, particularly if you feel unsure or anxious. This takes time, so you must try and take the time that is needed. If you were admitted to hospital, you can organize a sort of second birth experience, so that when the baby comes home, you can get used to each other, feel each other, and build up a new life together. Many parents have described that this helped them to recognise the healthy aspects of the child and his lust for life.
Parenthood
The birth of a child is an intense experience for the parents, particularly
the birth of their first child. In fact, it brings about many changes. Before the birth the parents had a relationship with each other, and after the birth they have suddenly become parents and formed a family. Obviously, they still have a relationship, but the partners no longer relate exclusively to each other. In particular, the mother focuses body and soul on her child. After the birth it may be a very long time, sometimes as long as a year, before she feels her old self. Consequently, owing to the new situation in which they find themselves, parents have to redefine the way in which they relate to each other.
This process is extremely demanding because the father and mother are involved with the child in very different ways during pregnancy and birth, and during the initial period after birth. The father may have a tendency to continue his old life with some modifications, while the mother has a deep sense that everything has changed. It may be a while before the partners find a new way of relating to each other on the basis of these two different worlds of experience. It is important to take time for this process and talk about it together from time to time.
What was described above applies particularly for the situation in which mother, father and child(ren) form the family. Where there is a one-parent family from birth, this process will particularly concern the mother.

After the birth, another process starts as well in that all parents discover themselves in a new way. They experience new positive feelings, although they can also have a negative character. A child brings happiness and joy, but there are also moments when irritation reaches unimagined heights.
In the whole range of emotions evoked by a child, feelings of anxiety have a special place, giving rise to questions such as: Am I doing it right’? Will anything happen to my child or me? Will everything be okay?
Every step in the child’s development is another step out into the world. From the age of three, the child even ventures beyond the horizons of the parents; he walks around the block or goes to school for the first time.
Some people are more sensitive to these anxieties than others, but since this anxiety is fruitless — and can really make life difficult for a child — something should be found to counterbalance it. Sometimes gaining an insight into the situation helps to diminish the anxiety, but often this is not enough. In order to tackle the anxiety in a structured way, it may be necessary to work on strengthening the parents’ confidence. Obviously this does not mean blind faith that ‘everything will probably be alright.’ It is not as simple as that. It means that it is possible to work on the confidence about the direction in which the
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child is moving, even though unexpected and undesired events may play a role. White anxiety is often ,our own problem,’ confidence can become a strength, which allows the child to flourish; having confidence in someone gives them the strength to grow.
In addition, a child often gives us a new sense of self-awareness: with his behaviour and imitations, he holds up a mirror to his parents. From the age of a few months you will see that a child assimilates the world by imitating it. The child copies everything he encounters, both internally and externally. For parents, this means that what they do and how they do things is important. Whether we do things hastily or with care, whether we do things unwillingly or with joy; all these aspects permeate the actions we perform and are unconsciously assimilated and imitated by the child. This also applies to what we say. Long before the child can understand our words, he will be aware of our intentions. Experiencing this, and occasionally having the things which we do and say, and how we do and say them, reflected by a child will lead to self-awareness, and possibly to a change in our way of being and doing things.
In positive terms, a child stimulates us to develop ourselves as well. There is also a third process. By experiencing the development of a small child and feeling co-responsible for him, it is possible to focus on your own childhood. Some things from your own childhood can lead to the feeling that ‘I want to do things for my children like that as well,’ while at other moments, you feel that ‘I want to spare my children this or that.’ Sometimes this encounter with your own past can be quite intense. It’s good to know that it is not unusual.
Just as we re-examine our own past, we also start to have a different
view of the future; in a sense looking to the future through the child. The future shines through the small child and urges us to determine the structure for that future.
Above, we have highlighted a number of the issues which will confront every parent; the redefinition of the relationship with their partner and other members of the family, a redefinition of themselves, and a new view of the past and the future.