I Don’t Want to Breastfeed. Bottlefeeding Your Baby FAQ
I don’t want to breastfeed
bottlefeeding your baby
I don’t want to breastfeed - can you tell me what to do?
If you do not want to breastfeed, you can either bottlefeed your baby expressed breast milk or formula milk. There are many women who do not breastfeed because they receive a lack of support and find that the advice available is insufficient. However, having a go at breastfeeding, even if this is just for one week, will benefit your baby.
If you have chosen to bottlefeed you will need to decide on a few things. First, you need to work out which type of formula you want to use. Take some time to look at the many brands on the market and opt for one that you feel will be right for your baby Ask your midwife or health visitor for advice if you are not sure You will also need to purchase bottles, teats, and a sterilizing unit. This can be confusing as there are lots to choose from, so you will need to take some time to find out about the available options and which unit will work best for you (see p.239)
Bottlefeeding sounds so complicated. Are there “dos” and “don’ts” to remember?
Yes, it is important to bottlefeed safely. The NHS provides guidelines for safe bottlefeeding
* Always make sure you use a sterilized bottle. cap, and teat for each feed
* Ideally, make up one feed at a time and discard any leftover milk at the end of a feed.
* Use boiled tepid water that has been left to cool for up to half an hour before making up a feed.
Put the water into the bottle before the formula.
Don’t pack the formula into the scoop: instead, level it off gently with a knife.
* Warm the feed — not in a microwave, but in a bowl of hot water — and test the temperature before giving it to your baby
* Avoid swapping scoops from different makes of infant formula milk as different scoops may be different measurements.
I feel guilty for not breastfeeding - should I?
No! The main thing is to ensure that your baby receives the best possible care in life that you are able to provide. If it is not possible for you to breastfeed, then formal milk feeds are a safe option. However, you need to feel comfortable with your decision and not be swayed by others. You may want to look at the advantages and disadvantages of both breast- and bottlefeeding. That way you’ll be sure you’ve made the right decision for you and your baby without feeling guilty Once you have made an informed decision, communicate this confidently to family, friends, and your healthcare provider.
Is formula milk as good as breast milk?
Breast milk is universally considered the ideal nutrition for your baby, and the World Health Organization (WHO) recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months of life as it provides all the nutrients a baby needs However,
Bottles and teats
Getting ready to bottlefeed your baby
There area variety of bottles and teats available in different styles.
You will need between four and six bottles and teats As well as larger bottles measuring 250ml (8fl oz), you may also want a couple of smaller bottles of 125 ml (4fl oz). Teats come with different sized holes to make the flow of milk faster or slower to suit your baby’s needs. Some teats are therefore recommended for newborns and some for hungrier older babies,
there area variety of high-quality, nutritional baby formula milks available that scientists and medical experts have spent years developing. Most infant formula milks are derived from cow’s milk, but are modified to resemble breast milk as closely as possible. If you feel confused, discuss the different brands with your midwife or health visitor.
What exactly is in formula milk and how similar is this to breast milk?
If you read the labels on different brands of formula, there are not many variances. The Infant and Dietetic Association website (see p 310) provides a table comparing the contents of the five main brands
available in the UK. Baby milk must provide energy, fat, protein, carbohydrate, vitamins, minerals, and trace elements, and the quantity of each nutrient is specified by law. The proportions of energy supplied by protein, fat, and carbohydrate in infant formulas are similar to those in mature breast milk
* The fat content. In infant formulas this is based on blends of dairy or vegetable fats that are chosen partly depending on their levels of unsaturated fat. Omega 3 fats may be added as these are vital nutrients for growing brains and bodies Formula milk does not have the fat-digesting enzyme, lipase, which accounts for the unpleasant-smelling stools of formula-fed babies.
* The protein source. In formula milk, this is either cow’s milk, in the form of casein or whey, or soya (see p,240) The amino acid content of formula is equivalent to that of breast milk to meet the needs of the rapidly growing baby.
* Lactose. This may be included in formula; mature breast milk contains about 7 per cent carbohydrate in the form of lactose, which is thought to be important for brain development.
* Vitamins, minerals, and trace elements. These are added to formulas to meet the nutritional needs of the baby and to comply with legal requirements. * Iron. This is vital to your baby’s wellbeing, being essential for healthy blood, growth, and development, and this is added to formula brands.
* Other components. Infant formula may contain other components that are found naturally in breast milk, such as long-chain polyunsaturated fatty acids (for brain and membrane development), oligosaccharides (to aid digestion and immunity), or nucleotides (to promote healthy growth and development and to help the immune system).
There are some components of breast milk that cannot be replicated in formulas For example, breast milk contains important antibodies that help protect babies against infection and illness and these are not present in formula milk. However, prebiotics, which are nutrients found in breast milk that strengthen a baby’s natural immune system, may be added to some brands of formula
How to bottlefeed
Preparing and giving feeds
Bottlefeeding, using formula or expressed breast milk, can seem daunting at first, but becomes easier once you get into a routine.
How do I start?You will need at least 4-6 bottles and teats, with at least one or two sterilized and ready. You can sterilize by steaming, microwaving, boiling, or using a sterilizing liquid. Your choice will depend on the cost and what you find easiest. Before sterilizing, rinse a bottle first with warm soapy water using a bottle brush, taking care to clean the top of the bottle and inside the teat.
How do I make up a feed? Wash your hands and make up a feed according to the instructions. Put the correct amount of tepid boiled tap water
into the sterilized bottle first and then add the right number of level scoops of powder, Never add extra powder as this could make your baby ill. Don’t put a half finished feed back in the fridge - throw it away and use a fresh bottle next time
How do I give the feed? Test that the milk is not too hot by putting some on the inside of your wrist (never use a microwave to warm up milk) Find a comfortable position and always hold your baby’s head slightly higher than his body. Put the teat gently into his mouth and slowly tip the bottle so that only milk, not air, gets into the teat You can wind your baby - gently pat or rub your baby’s back - halfway through the feed, or wait until the end. Throw away any milk that is left over.
KEEPING BOTTLES CLEAN:
Sterilizing equipment
Before using new bottles and teats, and each time you use them, wash and sterilize them. Wash them in warm, soapy water with a bottle brush, and rinse thoroughly. Sterilizing methods include: * Electric steam sterilizing, which takes about 10 minutes, plus the time it takes for equipment to cool
* Microwave steamers, which take around 5 minutes. The equipment remains sterile for up to 3 hours if the lid is left on. * Equipment can be sterilized by boiling, which takes around 10 minutes. The pan must not be used for another purpose and you may find that teats wear out more quickly
* Cold water sterilizing tablets can be used either in a special sterilizer, or in a suitable clean container with a lid. This takes around 30 minutes and the equipment can be left in the solution for up to 24 hours; the solution needs to be changed each day. * Dishwashers need to be set on a high temperature and some parents prefer to wait until after a year before using these.
Is it OK to combine breast-and bottlefeeding?
Yes, it is possible to combine breastfeeding with bottles of expressed breast milk or formula, and many women choose to do this rather than stop breastfeeding altogether.You may also decide to do this if you are returning to work.
Feeding from a bottle uses a different technique to feeding from the breast, and your baby may take a little time to get used to it, which can make it quite a struggle to introduce bottles It may help to warm the teat and to get someone else to offer the bottle the first time, as your baby may be able to smell your milk if you hold him and will be likely to want to be breastfed instead Holding him in a different position, such as propped up against your front and facing away from you, may also help
Before deciding to introduce the bottle, it’s worth considering that breastfeeding does get easier and that there is a lot of extra work involved with bottlefeeding in terms of preparing feeds. Also, as your breast milk is produced on a supply and demand basis, introducing bottles for some feeds
will affect your milk production. If you do want to combine the two, talk to your health visitor or a breastfeeding counsellor about how to manage this so that you can maintain breastfeeding
Will people treat me like a failure if I can’t breastfeed and have to use formula?
Many mothers do feel pressure from friends and family to breastfeed their newborns It is unlikely that you will be treated as a failure, as Western society is very accepting of bottlefeeding and, on the contrary, it is a continual effort to try to promote breastfeeding in our society. In November 2007, the Department of Health actually banned baby milk manufacturers from advertising infant formula for children under six months old on television and in parenting magazines.
Guidelines aside, although breastfeeding is a wonderful experience, it can sometimes be very hard work to establish If you find that you are struggling to establish breastfeeding, it’s worth seeking help from your midwife, health visitor, or breastfeeding counsellor before giving up
completely. However, if you find you simply cannot breastfeed, or you choose not to, you should try not to feel guilty as formula-fed babies grow and develop perfectly well. This is your baby and you will have your baby’s best interests foremost whatever action you decide to take.
Which formula milk should I buy?
There area number of brands that have a very similar nutritional content and you may need to chat to your local midwife or health visitor, or even family and friends with little ones, when trying to decide which one to use. Sometimes, babies are born prematurely and may need a special formula, or occasionally may react to a particular brand. If your baby was born full-term and is healthy, it is usually down to personal preference.
Manufacturers modify cow’s milk to make formula for human babies by adjusting carbohydrate, protein, and fat levels, and adding vitamins and minerals. There are two main types of formula milk, which have different ratios of the two proteins in milk: whey and casein. Those that are suitable for babies from birth contain more whey than casein The ratio of whey to casein in these milks is similar to that of breast milk, so it is thought to be easier for new babies to digest Milks that are marketed for the ”hungrier” baby (known as ”follow-on” milk) are casein-dominant and take longer to digest.
Why do some people use soya-based formula and is it safe?
Soya-based formula is made from soya beans, which are modified for use in formula with vitamins, minerals, and nutrients. Some parents consider giving a soya-based formula if their baby has an intolerance or sensitivity to cow’s milk formula. Soya infant formulas are nutritionally similar to cow’s milk-based formulas. The protein used in soya formulas is an extract of the soya bean, which has a high protein content. However, the UK government recommends that you should always seek the advice of a health professional before giving soya-based formula to
your baby. The current Department of Health advice is that soya formula milk should not be given automatically to babies with a sensitivity to cow’s milk, as there are other types of formula that are suitable for most babies with an allergy or intolerance that may be more favourable than soya. So if you are considering soya milk, make sure you seek medical advice first.
The carbohydrates used in soya milk contain glucose syrup, which may damage your baby’s teeth over a period of time, so if you are using soya formula, make sure you take your baby to the dentist once his teeth come through and tell the dentist that your baby has a soya formula. The Food Standards Agency also highlights concerns that soya-based formula could affect reproductive health. This is because soya contains phytoestrogens, substances found naturally in some plants, which may mimic cr block the action of the hormone oestrogen As this is a potentially sensitive time in a baby’s development, it is not clear whether soya-based infant formula could affect a baby’s reproductive development.
How should I hold my baby when I’m giving him the bottle?
Bottlefeeding can be a wonderful time for bonding with your baby by holding him close. Find a position that both you and your baby like — think about whether you are right- or left-handed and the age and size of your baby. You can cradle your baby or simply sit your baby on your lap. You will help reduce wind by giving your baby his bottle in as upright a position as possible. Also take care to tilt the bottle so that the teat and neck are always filled with formula and never leave your baby to feed unattended by propping the bottle up. Ask your midwife or health visitor for further advice
How long do you need to sterilize bottles for?
The recommendation is that you sterilize bottles and teats for at least the first year of your baby’s life. It is during this time that they are most vulnerable to germs and viruses, which if contracted could cause illness and possibly dehydration.
Can I make up feeds in advance?
Ideally, you should make up each feed fresh. The Department of Health and Food Standards Agency’s recommendations on the preparation and storage of formula milk advise that the risks associated with using powdered infant formula milk are reduced if each feed is made up fresh, as the longer the formula is stored, the greater the risk of bacterial growth. They do acknowledge that there are times when this is not practical, for example if you are going to leave the house for an extended period, or if you are dropping off a baby at a childminder’s or nursery. In this case, you should prepare the feeds in separate bottles as instructed and then store them in the fridge (see below). This is a departure from previous information so can seem unusual to mothers who have previously bottlefed Discuss this with your midwife and health visitor
How long can pre-made feeds stay in the fridge?
Although it is not recommended that you make up bottles of infant formula milk in advance to store in the fridge because of the risk of bacteria developing, if you need to do this, store them in the back of the fridge, not the door, to ensure they are below 5°C (4 PF) and never store feeds for longer than 24 hours (although this is considered too long for young babies). Formula milk is not suitable for freezing.
Taking a break
Is it safe to warm a bottle and take it out to use later on?
Carrying warm formula milk in an insulated carrier is not safe, as warm milk is a good breeding ground for bacteria The safer option is to make a feed up fresh for your baby just before it is required If you are out, you can carry boiled water in an insulated container ready to mix with formula powder when you need it Ready made-up milk feeds that come in little cartons are a more expensive option, but are handy for instantly decanting into a sterilized feeding bottle. If your baby is reluctant to take milk at room temperature, you could use a travel bottle-warmer, which can also be used to heat up containers and jars of baby food
What precautions should I take making feeds with bottled water when I’m travelling?
When using bottled water to make up a feed, make sure the seal is still intact. Use still, not sparlding, water, and avoid water with high concentrations of the minerals sodium, nitrate, or flouride. Boil the
One of the major plus points of bottlefeeding is that anyone can feed your baby, allowing you to have some time off and rest.
* Getting your partner involved in feeding is a great way to help him bond with and feel close to your baby
* Sharing feeds gives you a break and you can take it in turns to do night feeds
* If you are switching from breast- to bottlefeeding, it may be easier to get someone else to give your baby the bottle, as your baby may reject the bottle from you wanting to be breastfed instead water in a kettle in exactly the way you would boil tap water at home and wash and sterilize your feeding equipment as usual Large bottles of mineral water should be stored in a fridge after opening For convenience, you may prefer to use smaller bottles of mineral water if you are travelling from place to place. For extra convenience, ready-to-feed milks are available in cartons so you do not have to carry bulky tins of powdered milk with you. Although more expensive, these cut down on the amount of work you have to do and mean that you can be sure of good hygiene in the absence of adequate facilities
I’ve heard that bottlefed babies have smellier poo - is this true?
This does seem to be the case Bottlefed babies may have one bowel movement a day or only have a bowel movement once every three or four days.
Avoiding tummy upsets
Small babies are more susceptible to gastrointestinal infections so it’s important to observe strict hygiene while bottlefeeding. One of the most important aspects while bottlefeeding is to ensure that all the equipment involved in the bottlefeeding process is sterilized properly and spotlessly clean with no trace of old milk. This means sterilizing the bottles, teats, and lids (see p.239). If your baby doesn’t complete a feed, don’t be tempted to give it to him later to finish as germs that are present in the baby’s mouth may have transferred to the bottle and can then breed in the milk When you are travelling or out for the day, you need to take care transporting feeds Ready-made formula is probably the safest way to feed your baby while on the move, or adding formula to the water when you need it. Changes in water in different regions sometimes cause tummy upsets in bottlefed babies.
are normal. A bottlefed baby’s stools are pale brown smelly, and more formed than those of a breastfed baby. Some baby formula milks give a greenish tinge to the stool. It is thought that unabsorbed fat causes the unpleasant-smelling stools in formula-fed babies. Breast milk is better absorbed, which means the stools usually have less odour
Will my baby get more wind if he is bottlefed?
Wind refers to the air in your baby’s tummy. It is swallowed along with milk during feeds, but also when he cries. It will fill his tummy before he has drunk enough milk and be uncomfortable Also the faster flow of milk from a bottle can make babies take in more gulps of air. Some babies suffer with wind and need burping after every feed Breastfed babies tend to get fewer problems with wind than bottlefed ones as they control the flow of milk at the breast and so suck at a slower pace, swallowing less air with the milk They also have smaller and more frequent feeds and may be fed in an upright position, both of which can reduce wind
Some babies have trouble bringing up wind and their discomfort is obvious You can reduce wind by feeding your baby in an upright position and tilting the bottle so that the teat is full of milk and not air. If your baby doesn’t burp after a couple of minutes, he probably doesn’t need to. Wind your baby by gently rubbing his back or placing him over your shoulder Some babies only seem to be able to get rid of wind through hiccuping. If the wind is severe, your health visitor or doctor may suggest medication.
Is it OK to give my baby water as well as milk?
Formula milk does tend to be less thirst-quenching than breast milk as the strength of formula doesn’t vary whereas breast milk varies in consistency, with the beginning of a feed tending to be more watery If your bottlefed baby still seems hungry after a feed, it could therefore be that he is thirsty and some cooled boiled water may help to placate him In hot weather he may need regular top-ups of water.